I’m a woman in my 20s

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Sorry for the long post I’m having trouble with my papa (a male supporter) being overly worried and overprotective. For example, the other day at a restaurant, soup was served and when I was about to drink it, he said, “Wait! You might burn yourself, so let me try it first.” He actually went out of his way to check the temperature for me. He does things like this—things you’d normally do for a small child—in all sorts of situations. He also told me to message him when I got home, but once I forgot to contact him and he started calling me over and over. I gently pointed out that he seemed overly worried, but his reaction made it seem like he didn’t realize it himself. I’m seeing this papa on a monthly arrangement and would like to continue, but honestly, it’s exhausting. Is there any way I can get him to stop being so overprotective, even just a little? I’d really appreciate any advice. Thank you.

Answer 1

Ayase Nana is… ♡ I’m so envious. I was raised overprotectively by my father, so if I’m not treated that way, I end up mistakenly thinking I’m not loved. Ah, I’m so jealous. Let him cherish you and spoil you plenty.

Answer 2

I understand. He must be absolutely smitten with you. But honestly, it can get a little exhausting, can’t it? You need to handle things carefully, though. Otherwise, you might hurt your papa’s feelings, bring the arrangement to an early end, or even make things worse. Try to navigate the relationship as smoothly as possible, so you can get what you want without stressing yourself out. That might be best for both of you. Akari

Answer 3

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. Why not try picking a fight once in a while? I think it could be an effective approach—in a good way, at least, with that papa.

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