If I contracted an STI from a man, is this something I should report to the club?

I’m Dai, a male member. It would probably be difficult for the club to do much about it. I think the only thing you can really do is lower his rating in your feedback. That’s because, as the person asking the question also had unprotected sex, they share some responsibility. As Mac said, if it’s something that can be treated with medication, take it as a valuable lesson and move on.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well. > It was determined that the man’s actions did not constitute a violation. Unfortunately, unless he did it knowingly, I don’t think it would be considered a violation. In most cases, the man would probably say that he didn’t know he had an STI, so under those circumstances, it likely wouldn’t qualify as a violation. > How should I report this so the club will take action? If you’re hoping they’ll somehow punish him, I’m afraid that wish probably won’t be fulfilled. However, if your goal is to prevent other women from contracting an STI, you can simply report exactly what you’ve written here. The club could then contact the man and tell him to get tested for STIs. They might also ask him to refrain from receiving offers until the test results are available. That said, when they interview him, it could naturally turn into a he-said-she-said situation, with him claiming that he caught it from the woman. So I think you should have a photo of your test results after treatment, showing that you tested negative for everything. Until you can provide that, the man’s profile will probably be hidden. Even so, reporting it could help prevent other women from being affected, so I do think you should report it. Also, if you asked him to use a condom but he had an unprotected adult relationship with you anyway, you should report that separately as well. That would establish that this is the kind of man he is, and I think it would be fair to lower his rating on that basis. You might want to post a separate review mentioning that he pressured or forced you into an adult relationship, and rate him -2 in every category, separately from the STI issue.

I’m BB7. There’s no way to prove it, but if you had an STI test a year ago and haven’t been with anyone since, then you were almost certainly infected by that man. Please report him to the club as soon as possible. I’d rather not catch anything from him.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Whether this is something worth reporting is for you to decide. An escort club is simply a service that arranges dinner dates. I don’t think it’s right to expect the club to deal with what happens in the realm of free romance. In the post-date survey, you could report something like, “I asked him to use a condom, but he gradually pressured me into having unprotected sex. I later found out that I had contracted an STI,” and give the man a low rating.