Since there was a question about Christmas... Do men lose interest if you ask for a Christmas present? My papa (a male supporter) thinks of me as his girlfriend and says he considers us to be dating (of course, he’s married... lol)
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For a wealthy man with a much younger girlfriend—especially when he’s married and we won’t be seeing each other until after Christmas—it’s only natural that he’d want to give her something expensive as a Christmas present, right?
At least in the past, the men I dated would ask what I wanted without me having to say anything.
But this man hasn’t asked me anything, so I’m wondering whether I should bring it up myself...
He can financially afford to buy me anything, but would he lose interest if I asked him for something?
This is Nana Ayase ♡
If he hasn’t brought it up, it’s probably best to leave him be. Since Christmas falls on a Saturday this year, wouldn’t it be enough just to enjoy some Christmas cake together?
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
When I want to give a woman a present, I give it to her right away, so events and special occasions don’t really mean anything to me.
On the other hand, wouldn’t women in papa-katsu who wear a new bag or accessories they received from another man after Christmas be disliked more?
(I personally don’t really care.)
So while I’m sure the women around me appreciate being celebrated, none of them have ever asked me to buy them something.
In fact, they often tell me they’d like to give me a present, but I turn them all down.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Wouldn’t a woman lose interest if she were asked for a Christmas present? I feel that directly asking for things is only acceptable when a school-age child asks their parents.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Please don’t fantasize about men’s feelings in a way that suits your own expectations.
Only children and women harbor romantic illusions about Christmas.
For adult men, it’s either a day to use as an excuse to woo a woman or simply eat cake and chicken.
If she asked me for a present, I’d be completely turned off.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If you’re assuming she’s your girlfriend—even if it’s just pretending—why not suggest something like, “Let’s exchange gifts”?
Or, if you’re in the girlfriend role, it might be okay to ask for something, but it would probably be best to keep the price reasonable.
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Since you’ll probably meet at least once before Christmas, give him a present the last time you see him before then. If he still doesn’t give you one in return, there’s nothing you can do.
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