For example, he married a 25-year-old woman when he was 35, then divorced her 20 years later.
At 65, he had a child with and married a 24-year-old woman.
His daughter from his previous marriage is 25.
He says she’s unattractive, so he doesn’t even want to show people photos of her, and only supports her financially.
He gives his 24-year-old wife a monthly allowance of ¥300,000 and a family credit card, but apparently gets angry and says she’s overspending whenever the card bill exceeds ¥500,000.
Even after remarrying, he still spends time with women in their early twenties whom he had been close to, gives them luxury-brand gifts for their birthdays, helps with their rent, and generally keeps finding ways to stay involved with young women.
He’s an older man who actually exists in my circle.
I assume he has both the money and the time, but somehow, I can’t help feeling that his life is lonely and starved for love.
And I also find myself thinking that the allowance he gives his new wife—who must have accepted and prepared herself for all sorts of things by marrying a 65-year-old—is rather small, haha.
But if a man has the money, is this really his ideal and his true desire?
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
At first glance, this may look like a question, but really, you’re just going on and on about examples you look down on.
Just because you’re lonely doesn’t mean you need to post it here.
What exactly are you asking, and how do you intend to apply the answer to yourself? Is this simply a case of, “I’d like to do the same, but I can’t because I don’t have the money”?
You mention “the male sex,” but it’s laughable to lump half the world’s population together and try to make them all seem the same.
Even if you’re lonely and no one pays attention to you, trying to get attention here won’t help. Anything I determine isn’t actually a question will be hidden.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Whether someone is starved for love depends on how they themselves feel about it.
Personally, I don’t have the assets or means to go that far, so I’m envious. Supporting several younger women, he seems like a good person to me.
Men’s attraction to younger women—though it varies in strength from person to person—is an instinct we possess as animals: the desire to pass on our genes (sperm) to a healthy body (a younger woman) whenever possible. I think women’s concern with looking young is the opposite counterpart to that.
I don’t want to be misunderstood: men do have reason and self-control, and someone who’s too young may not be able to hold a conversation with them. So it’s not that every man likes 18-year-olds.
That said, many men do prefer women younger than themselves.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
That’s a good question（笑）
I’m also just entering my later years, and I can relate.
I wonder why that is（笑）
They really weren’t kidding when they said we always want what we don’t have.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That may be the case—or perhaps it’s simply that you can’t take your money with you when you die.
And maybe you won’t really know until you reach your early sixties.
Food has its seasons and its prime, after all.
In sports, many events peak for both men and women in their twenties. But you can enjoy sports and even set new personal records at any age. Sometimes, you find new things to enjoy and discover after retiring from competition.
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Things that would irritate me when dealing with women my own age become completely forgivable when it’s a younger girl.
Basically, I get to play the fake gentleman.
My rival is some young punk, right? Since I have money, I can show the kind of worldly composure he can’t afford to—especially with a beautiful woman, it works like a charm.
It’s the moment my need for self-actualization—my love of seeing myself as a gentleman—is fulfilled. According to Maslow, that’s the ultimate state of happiness.
That’s why I go for younger girls.
I like myself best when I’m with my ace.
I can play the perfect gentleman effortlessly.
My ace—who’s incredibly popular with men her own age and even gets offers from talent agencies—has absolutely no intention of leaving me.
Even though I’m rotten inside, with a personality no better than dick cheese, I can play the perfect gentleman in front of my ace, a young and adorable girl.
Of course I’m insanely happy.
This is definitely going to cause an uproar, lol.
That said, I don’t think women are automatically better just because they’re young.
What matters is the man’s state of mind when he’s with her.
Even if she’s my age, if being with her puts me at ease mentally, there’s no way I’d leave her.
At that point, I might even look at younger women and think, “They still smell like pee.”
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Is it really in women’s nature to marry a man 40 years older, have a child with him, and become a mother, just because he gives her a ¥300,000 allowance and a family card with a ¥500,000 spending limit?
Using one particular man as an example to talk about men’s ideals and true feelings isn’t just nonsensical—it’s downright stupid.
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It’s different for everyone, so isn’t that a bit none of your business?
If everyone liked young girls, I wouldn’t be happily living in the Universe.
Marika
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