I have two papas who offered to meet me here, but I can only see them about once a month, and they don’t even try to give me an allowance unless I bring it up first. They just pull cash straight from their wallets.
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I thought people I met through a club wouldn’t be like that, so I moved from an app to this site, but it’s kind of disappointing. Some people only make offers the day before, too, so I guess meeting through a club doesn’t necessarily mean they’re higher quality.
Or is it that if your own rank is low—which I don’t actually know mine—then you only get offers from people like this?
I’m Dai, a male member.
I also have a monthly arrangement, but I always give the allowance before I’m asked.
If you don’t like last-minute offers, you have every right to turn them down.
It’s true that not every man at a club is a good one, but even so, I think it’s safer than using an app.
I also get the impression that many men offer a higher allowance than they would on an app.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I feel bad that you seem to keep running into men who won’t give you an allowance unless you ask, but if all you’re finding are monthly arrangements, I can’t help thinking there may be an issue on your end as well. If a woman is wonderful, I’d want to see her once a week.
Also, when people start talking about “quality,” regardless of whether they’re men or women, I get the feeling that’s just the kind of person they are.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering your question as well.
Some men move from dating apps to an introduction club. However, there are people who can make that transition and people who can’t.
The main difference is simply whether they’re willing to pay tens of thousands of yen to the club in order to make offers to women.
So naturally, there are probably men who won’t offer an allowance unless you ask.
That said, I think those men are either new members or men who have only dated women who had just joined the club.
If a woman like you explains things to him kindly and clearly, he’ll probably realize that he needs to do things differently from how he would on an app. Hopefully, he’ll improve from the next date onward.
As for the quality, it also depends on what each person considers “quality,” but I do hope it improves.
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