Tips Nov 3, 2021 14:47

My papa gave me a cheap ¥16,000 necklace as a birthday present. Should I wear it? Do men actually notice things like that?

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For now, I’ve listed it on Mercari.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I don’t think I’d have the nerve to buy a necklace without letting the woman see it and choose it herself...
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer. I think you should wear it at least once. It’s always nice to see someone wearing a gift you gave them. They might realize it looks a little cheap. You could even wear something else in a way that makes it look like that. It might make them want to give you something nicer.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Please wear the gifts you receive on every date. Don’t waste people’s kindness. You’d better not sell them on Mercari. A 300-yen-store necklace suits you perfectly, questioner.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. This may be beside the point, but I don’t want to date someone who immediately puts gifts they receive up for sale.
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I always wear anything I’m given on our next date. Even if I don’t really like it, I put it on before I arrive at the meeting place. Even if it’s a tiny little diamond necklace, if I wear it and say, “It’s cute,” they’ll naturally think, “Sorry it’s so small,” and start choosing even nicer things for me. If you put yourself in the other person’s shoes, wouldn’t you want to respond in a way that makes them happy? Akari
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I’m Osaka, a male member. You’ve already listed it on Mercari, lol. How much are you asking for it? lol
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Oh no. For ¥16,000, I would’ve been happier with something like a slightly nicer bath towel. I once received a large, long necklace that really wasn’t my style and never wore it even once. Then, for my birthday, he gave me diamond earrings instead. I’d never worn a long necklace before and didn’t even know how to style it, though. Marika
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. It makes me happy when I happen to see her wearing something I gave her. I’ve only ever gifted her things she wanted, so she’s never not used them. That’s about how closely I pay attention.
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