True ladies don’t obsess over money. It’s the nouveau riche sons and daughters who are always talking about money, right?
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My beloved is quite the refined lady, but I’ve never once found her attitude unpleasant.
Lately, I’ve been struggling with the realization that the things a true lady would be happy to have done for her or receive can’t be bought with money.
I have to admit I still don’t really understand a woman’s heart.
What kinds of things make her feel fulfilled and give her peace of mind?
What would I need to do to soothe the heart of my beloved, who isn’t materialistic?
I’m Aya, a female member.
When you ask, “What would make you feel fulfilled and at peace?” there’s really no single answer, because it varies completely from woman to woman. Honestly, if you don’t understand that every woman has different circumstances, I can’t help but feel you’re already making things difficult.
Pay attention to the woman in front of you, figure out what she wants and needs, and have plenty of meaningful conversations with her.
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I’m Nanaa Ayase ♡
True heiresses and heirs are always fussed over by adults, while their parents and relatives are probably strict with them about education and discipline.
Be something that helps them let their guard down.
Give them a place of comfort—a safe haven where they can feel at ease.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
The Kansai dialect at the beginning feels so out of place, lol. Why only at the beginning?
More importantly, answering the question is really difficult. It may not just apply to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but to interacting with people in general.
Even when you think you’ve built that kind of relationship, it can disappear in an instant, and your own feelings may change too. No matter how far you take it, sometimes it feels like nothing more than an illusion based on your own subjective view.
Maybe the question is asking whether you can be your true self, so all you can do is build things up one step at a time. Don’t become complacent—always be considerate of the other person, stay alert to their feelings, and try to empathize with them.
Personally, the moments I enjoy most are when we’re both laughing our heads off over something completely trivial.
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I don’t think it’s possible for you.
I don’t sense any depth or compassion in you.
You seem more like the kind of person who thinks, “Now that I have money, I can pet young, cute girls—ugh!!”
Akari
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think any woman can feel emotionally fulfilled by a man who categorizes people—for example, by whether they’re truly refined ladies or daughters of nouveau riche families.
I also believe that maintaining a long-term relationship with a man who fulfills you emotionally brings peace of mind.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
If the other person doesn’t ask for something, there’s no demand for it in the first place. When they do ask, respond by giving them exactly what they want—neither too little nor too much.
In other words, keep waiting for that opportunity or opening when they ask for it.
In the meantime, focus on building a moderate level of trust.
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