I was told that most PJs are mature, but that I seem extremely immature mentally.
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I was told, “If you stay like this, men will just use you however they want.”
I was told this the second time we met, and somehow I felt that I knew exactly what they meant.
How can I develop a stronger sense of self? Is it possible to become a woman who knows how to handle men, rather than one men can easily take advantage of?
I’m Aya, a female member.
If someone told me, “At this rate, men are going to take advantage of you,” I’d giggle and smile, saying something like, “Oh no, I wouldn’t like that,” while thinking to myself, “As if. It’s all an act.”
If that papa (a male supporter) likes vulnerable girls, I think you should keep being exactly the way you are. If he doesn’t seem to, then you’ll have to change. Which type does your papa prefer?
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I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
That way of thinking is childish in itself.
Do you understand why your immaturity makes it easy for men to take advantage of you? And even if you learned how to manipulate men, would that really make you happy?
Try to look more deeply at the essence of things and develop the habit of understanding them. If you’re easily fooled by appearances and can only think in simplistic, short-sighted terms, then I believe you still have a lot of growing up to do as an adult.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you take something like that at face value just because a man (papa) says it smugly, then he’s already taking advantage of you.
I think having a mind of your own means thinking things through for yourself.
Trying to manipulate people isn’t admirable.
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