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Nov 1, 2021 16:40
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From a papa’s perspective, do you notice what a woman is wearing every time?
Also, if I wear the same outfit to a date that I’ve worn before, do you think, “She’s wearing the same thing again”?
Am I just overthinking it, or do papas really not pay much attention to what we wear?
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If it’s a stylish outfit or something they’ve made an effort with, wearing the same thing is fine.
I have asked someone to wear the outfit from their profile photos before.
I might think it’s cute on the date, but after two months or so, I may have forgotten about it(笑)
I feel like I’d probably be pretty unfazed…
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Maezawa from the executive office will answer this one as well.
I get the impression that women put a lot of thought into their outfits, so if they wear the same clothes as before, people may notice.
But then again, I think people would simply assume, “That’s probably why she’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan),” so I don’t think it would create a negative impression.
That said, if she’s been meeting the same papa every week for more than six months and receiving, say, ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement, you might start wondering where all that money is going.
Still, wearing the same outfit isn’t a negative in itself. I think it’s enough just to check whether the clothes are clean.
> When I found out that she even brought a different blouse, I thought, “Women really have it tough.”
She may have stopped by her place early in the morning before going to work. That does sound like a lot of effort.
On the other hand, when you wear the same clothes, men may ask things like:
“Did you go on a date with your boyfriend yesterday?”
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Yes, I’ve seen women wear outfits I’d seen before. I sometimes wear the same clothes myself, and I’d mention it casually, like, “I’ve seen that shirt before,” without any ill intent.
They’re ordinary people, so I think it’s perfectly natural for them to show up wearing the same outfit.