I’m the person who asked the question earlier. Thank you to everyone who took the time to answer.

Some of you suggested that I might have a chance to see him at a class reunion, but unfortunately, we’re three years apart in age, so that won’t be possible. Even if I contacted him, I feel like he wouldn’t reply before we ever got to meet. Are there really men who are married with a wife and children, yet would actually meet up if a former junior from their school days told them she wanted to see them...? I think there’s a good chance my feelings would cool off if I could see him, but is there any way I can bring myself closure without meeting him? Below is the question I posted earlier. I’m suffering because I can’t forget someone I used to love. I’m a 24-year-old married woman. I have a wonderful husband, and I love him. But I can’t get the person I liked in high school out of my head. He’s married too, and he has children. We still follow each other on social media, but we haven’t seen or contacted each other in six years. If I could get in touch with him, I would like to, but he never really liked me to begin with—I felt like he had me wrapped around his finger—so I don’t think there’s any point in contacting him now. I have a precious husband of my own, and I want to keep this person tucked away in the back of my mind, but somehow, he continues to occupy my thoughts. It’s unbearably painful. What can I do to ease this suffering?