Looking through the Q&A, don’t you think a lot of women suddenly cut things off or stop responding? lol
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Are men the same way?
If a favorite woman suddenly cut me off, I feel like I’d have a hard time letting go, so I’d rather she slowly faded out instead…
Are there any warning signs that a woman who suddenly becomes unable to meet is about to disappear?
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Yes, there are women like that（笑）. I’ve actually met three female members, and one of them was like that（笑）.
It happened so suddenly that I checked with the club. They said they had “mentioned it tactfully,” but…
It was my first time too, so I didn’t really understand what they meant by “tactfully” in the first place.
She was in her mid-thirties, married, and had children, so I never expected her to bring it up—even indirectly. I honestly couldn’t figure out what was supposed to be tactful about it（笑）.
We’re both old enough to just say it plainly: “Come on, just be direct!” That was how it felt.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
When someone isn’t kind or doesn’t treat me well, I start feeling like they don’t need me anymore.
If I trip and scrape my hand, and they don’t even ask, “Are you okay?”—then laugh at me on top of that… I start thinking that, to this person, I’m just a friend. And little by little, my heart freezes over.
The signs that they’re about to suddenly cut things off are:
Their LINE messages become cold and brief.
They start speaking to me formally.
They stop smiling and won’t make eye contact.
Even if they cut me off, I’ll just think, “Okay, on to the next one,” right?
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
Women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) who suddenly cut things off often have some kind of dissatisfaction with their papa (a male supporter), even if they seem cheerful, and view it as a transactional relationship. Some women simply think they can end things once the arrangement is no longer useful to them or they lose motivation for papa-katsu. Since these feelings are internal, there usually aren’t any obvious signs.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Since this kind of relationship is based on understanding each other’s boundaries, parting ways tends to be fairly straightforward as well.
On the other hand, if things aren’t kept that simple, ending the relationship can take a lot of emotional energy.
Personally, I don’t mind whether it fades out or ends abruptly, but I’d still like to say goodbye in the end.
That said, if a woman intends to end things suddenly, I imagine she’d avoid showing any signs that a goodbye is coming.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer too.
> “Being ghosted would be better…”
That may just be your perception.
If someone suddenly fades out, you might start wondering:
“Did they get sick?”
“Were they in an accident and hospitalized, so they can’t get in touch?”
So in the end, I feel like it’s much of a muchness.
> “Are there any warning signs when a woman suddenly stops being able to meet?”
There usually are, but men apparently don’t notice them.
From the woman’s perspective, it seems she’s sending signals.
Still, men tend to think they’re in control of the situation, so they won’t understand unless she tells them directly.
But if she does say it outright, they’ll probably think, “What’s with this woman?”—so I suppose women end up deciding it’s better not to say anything.
That’s why men should be kinder and more considerate toward women.
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