I’m suffering because I can’t forget someone I used to love.
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I’m a 24-year-old married woman.
I have a wonderful husband, and I love him.
However, I can’t get the person I had feelings for in high school out of my head.
He is married too, and he has children.
We still follow each other on social media, but we haven’t seen each other or been in touch for six years.
If I could contact him, I’d like to, but he didn’t really like me in the first place—I felt as though he was just playing me—so I know there would be no point in reaching out now.
I have a husband I truly care about, and I want to keep this person somewhere in the back of my mind, but somehow, he continues to occupy my thoughts.
It’s incredibly painful.
What can I do to ease this suffering?
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Are you truly prepared to destroy both of your families?
Once you take that one step further, questioner, you’ll never be able to go back.
You’re being naive. And as Mac said, aren’t you getting married too soon? You need to enjoy life more. Otherwise, I feel like you’ll probably end up divorced.
My father was very strict, and my husband was my first… I got married without experiencing anything else, and it was a mistake.
To everyone reading this answer: go out and experience more, and develop a better eye for people. Even your mid-thirties is perfectly fine. Don’t rush into it.
Forget about him. You don’t really know who he is anyway.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If possible, why not have a child together?
I think once a woman has a child, she pours so much of her energy into them that she can hardly think about anything else.
Wouldn’t it be nice to meet again at a class reunion some 20 years later, after the child has grown up?
Maybe you’d be disappointed to find he’d become an overweight, balding older man—or maybe that’s where a new romance would begin…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Your memories have probably been idealized, so I think meeting up for dinner once will help you see things more realistically and calm down.
If that doesn’t help, let’s think of another approach.
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