How can I turn my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experience into a beautiful, cherished memory instead of something I regret or feel is dirty?
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There are moments—when I visit my family home or have dinner with friends—when I feel dirty.
I think the people I love most would be saddened if they knew.
I’m sure my grandmother, who raised me, would be watching and crying, thinking, “What are you doing?”
I do have fun when I’m with my papa (a male supporter), though. Having sex with a kind papa and getting paid is the best.
I’m Aya, a female member.
Once you’ve built up more wealth than you could ever spend, the guilt will disappear too. Use that money to take good care of your grandmother.
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This is Ayase Nana♡
It’s a matter of how you feel. Even though you thought you were having fun, it suddenly starts to feel dirty… You’re forcing yourself to see it that way.
Even if it’s only while you’re with your papa (a male supporter), he loves you. Even if you feel you have nothing special to offer, he needs you. In those moments, you shine.
You start feeling confused because you compare yourself to other people.
Try to remember that your papa truly cherishes you.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Papa-katsu happens during one of the most sensitive and vibrant periods of your life, so I believe it will stay with you for years to come. Even at my age—in my 60s—I’m deeply affected by these experiences, and I’m sure they’ll remain as lasting memories.
First of all, I think it’s a good thing if you learn or experience something through papa-katsu that you feel has benefited you personally. And if you can apply it to your life going forward, that’s the best possible outcome.
For example:
Why did your papa become wealthy? Could you become successful like that someday too?
Can you make your money grow by using it in this way?
Is this how you should think and act when approaching things in life?
What can you do to make a man happy during sex?
Is this the proper way to behave at the dinner table?
In a sense, you’re in an ideal environment for learning these kinds of things. Rather than doing papa-katsu aimlessly or simply focusing on the money, make the most of the opportunities it gives you.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s contradictory to enjoy spending time with your papa (a male supporter) while also feeling dirty afterward.
If you think the people you love would be hurt if they found out, I think you should stop now.
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