Tips Oct 27, 2021 17:00

A question for Shingo Lee. In your column, you wrote:

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“Even among things that have begun to spread as ‘correct sexual knowledge,’ there are many that turn out to be ‘not quite right after all.’” Could you recommend any books you personally found helpful? For me, 『The Torii-Style Ultimate Portio Development Method』 was quite good. (The way it explains using your hips is just as Shingo Lee’s theory describes.) Also, if you know of any videos featuring people who are good at sex, I’d appreciate those recommendations too. Adult videos are too heavily staged, so I no longer feel like watching them. (They’re not enjoyable at all.) These days, if I watch anything, it’s image videos that don’t show any men.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist. This isn’t a source of my own knowledge, but one book I’ve recently found worthwhile is *Yoroshiku, Your Sex*. I believe imagination is more important than having the “right” knowledge, and I liked this book because it’s full of content and illustrations that spark the imagination. Since it doesn’t explain why each technique is effective, people who prefer a more logical, evidence-based approach might find it lacking. Still, it’s a good book that makes you think, “That’s not really what sex is all about, is it?” There were also many approaches in it that I already use, as well as plenty that I’d like to try. I’ve never heard of the Tori method, so I can’t comment on that. As for portio development, I’ve read Yamayura’s *Vaginal Sensitivity Development and Internal Orgasm Manual*. It’s the book that popularized what’s commonly called “external portio development,” but I’m opposed to this simplistic approach. Preparation is necessary—relaxing the body, increasing blood flow, and creating the right atmosphere. I’m concerned that people are skipping all of that and spreading the misconception that external portio stimulation is automatically pleasurable. Well, since I’ll inevitably have to say, “For details, see the next pleasure process,” in future articles, I’ll leave it at that for now.
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