Tips Oct 26, 2021 21:34

I’ve told my sister that I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I lie and tell her I’m only going out to eat. She doesn’t think there’s any intimate relationship involved because she said it would be okay if I registered with the club under option A. But I wanted the money, so I secretly registered under B, and there is an intimate relationship involved.

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Recently, she saw a photo of me with a papa (a male supporter) I’m close to and asked, “There’s absolutely nothing intimate going on, right?” I lied and said, “No, we just go out to eat.” She said, “I thought so,” but... I have no choice but to keep up the lie, right? Sometimes I almost end up talking to her about the things that are weighing on me. What will happen to my sister if she finds out the truth?
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist. I think she asked because she’d already noticed. You can tell from the way a man and woman carry themselves around each other when they’ve been intimate.
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I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer as well. > What will happen to my sister if she finds out the truth? I don’t know what kind of person your sister is. And even if you think you know her, you rarely know everything about someone, so I don’t think you’ll know how she’ll react until the time comes. I think it would be best to make sure she doesn’t find out.
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I’m Aya, a female member. I can’t say for sure without knowing what your sister is like, but most people would probably be shocked. It’s best not to tell your friends that you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)… They’ll definitely let it slip. Ask for advice anonymously online instead. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is that sensational, I suppose—juicy enough that people feel compelled to spread it around.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. It depends on the person, so I can’t say.
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