Tips Oct 26, 2021 16:18

Would “Can I put it in now?” turn a dominant man on? I want to say something like that to my boyfriend, but using polite language feels a little too deliberate. It’s also kind of embarrassing because it sounds so calculated.

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Please suggest some words I can use to ask for it in a more natural, less obvious way—something that gives me the feeling of being dominated.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ “Is it okay if we do it now?” doesn’t sound very alluring. I’d probably say, “I want to be yours exclusively, [Name]~♡ Come see me soon~♡”
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer this one as well. > Asking to be taken in a way that makes you feel dominated That’s a difficult question. If you’re being dominated, you’re in a position where you can’t say it yourself, so I’m not sure what words you’d use to ask for it. If you’re truly being dominated, I think the basic idea is not to ask at all—just endure quietly and communicate your desire with your eyes.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. “ I can’t hold back anymore—put it in!” “Come on, put it in already (please).” Those phrases really turn me on. I get all fired up, like, “Alright, I’m going in!”
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t think “Can I put it in now?” is quite right. I considered “Put it in already!” but that doesn’t feel right either. I can’t really imagine getting turned on by begging for penetration, but if you absolutely had to beg for it, wouldn’t it be something like, “Please give me your dick!”? Still, it doesn’t quite feel right... No matter how you look at it, penetration is just ordinary sex, so I don’t think penetration and BDSM are a good match. I gave it a little more thought. If you want to stimulate a casual sadistic side, maybe something like, “Please ravage me!” “Please cum inside me!” or “Please impregnate me!”? I just listed a few phrases that sound like they could be AV titles.
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