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Oct 24, 2021 20:02
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Thank you for answering my question about French kissing.
I immediately told him by message, “Please kiss me in a room, not in the car or outside…♡ If it has to be somewhere other than a room, I’d appreciate it if you could add a little to my transportation allowance♡”
He replied:
“I understand. By the way, honestly, are you seeing anyone besides me? Based on your words and actions, things don’t add up objectively.
I don’t like the way I become jealous, so if that’s the case, I’ll just let our relationship naturally fade away.”
Is he saying this because I used to French-kiss him for transportation money only, but suddenly asked for transportation money plus something extra?
Also, I do have some dinner-only papas, but I don’t plan to tell him. However, they don’t French-kiss me.
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He’s just getting carried away and misunderstanding things.
What an idiot. He probably just wanted to believe that “it all added up” to genuine feelings.
Akari
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Phew, I made it in time this time. Sorry I showed up so late for the previous question. I finally managed to arrive while it was still timely. Now that I’m here, you can rest easy!
“What about Dad?” He was taking a long bath with a rice bowl, so I left him behind. I can defeat the Yokai Tongue-Kisser all by myself!
Don’t worry! Wait—you’re saying the questioner already sent it packing?
…Well, solving it yourself is best of all.
The Yokai Tongue-Kisser is good at taking advantage of people while completely ignoring their own faults, so I think this worked out for the best.
Lately, all sorts of nonsensical yokai have been popping up in this question box, like the Yokai Cunnichu and the Buyout Yokai, so please continue to stay alert and cautious.
If you spot one, send feedback to the yokai mailbox and help drive it away!
Anyway, I’m heading home to watch my recording of Wednesday Downtown. Thanks as always.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, weighing in as well.
> Is this papa saying that because I suddenly asked for more than just transportation expenses, even though I’d been French-kissing him for transportation money only up until now?
That’s exactly it.
He was fine with paying only your transportation expenses, and when you thought, “Since she’s so affordable, I’ll see her more often,” you turned him down. So I think he decided to look for another woman who would be cheaper.
Either way, he sounds like a man who doesn’t want to stop kissing you, but also doesn’t want to add anything to the allowance for kisses. There’s no reason for you two to keep seeing each other.
I’d simply reply with that, and after that, I think it would be fine to leave him on read and ignore him.
He sounds like a lot of trouble, so I don’t think there’s much benefit to continuing with him.
He might even turn into a stalker.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
He sounds like a rather difficult man—he French-kissed you for transportation money alone, yet wants you to see only him.
Why not ask him what he means when he says things don’t add up?
If you say someone is advising you, you could tell him it’s advice from another woman in papa-katsu.
Either way, he doesn’t seem like a particularly good man.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Objectively, it just doesn’t add up lol.
It looks like he said that out of frustration because things weren’t going the way he wanted.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
After sharing such an intense, deep kiss, it’s kind of hard to say, “I asked for advice on a Q&A site…”
I think he simply wants to kiss for free…
In the end, it comes down to how much you’re willing to put up with.
Personally, I’d say goodbye…