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Oct 24, 2021 14:01
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A papa I’ve been seeing for a year gave me a gift on an ordinary day.
It was the first time I’d ever received a gift through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I was really happy. However, there was also a letter with it, and its contents have left me shaken.
In short, he wrote that he’d been struggling with something for several years and had felt like he wanted to die, but after meeting me, he started feeling that he wanted to live a little longer, so he was grateful to me.
The rest of the letter was generally quite negative, and there were parts that made me wonder whether he might be depressed. (Normally, my papa is cheerful and doesn’t seem that way at all.)
Since he’s opened up to me—someone much younger than him and his papa-katsu partner—about such a sensitive personal issue, I’d like to support him if there’s anything I can do. What would be the best way to respond? Would it be better to continue treating him as usual rather than acting overly concerned?
I’d be grateful for any advice.
4 answers
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
> Do you think it’s better to treat him the same as before rather than worry too much about being considerate?
I think it’s best to continue treating him the way you always have.
I’m sure that’s what has comforted him up until now.
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Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
It’s not easy to heal someone’s heart.
I’m sure they’ll treat you well.
You can continue treating them the way you always have.
Please take good care of them.
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Other
I truly believe she means it when she says you saved her. I think you should continue treating her the same way you always have.
That said, I think it would be good to express your heartfelt gratitude for the gift.
Some papas were unaffected by COVID, some had their businesses suffer, and others actually ended up better off. Everyone’s situation was different.
I think you were a source of support for her during that time.
Akari
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it’s fine to keep doing things the way you have been. If you treat him too delicately, as though he might break, you could end up hurting a sensitive papa (male supporter) even more.