Tips Oct 22, 2021 12:17

A papa (a male supporter) I’ve only gone as far as having dinner with messaged me, “How about relaxing in a room after lunch until around 5 p.m.?” When I told him, “I might be on my period around then,” he replied, “You don’t have to push yourself, but I’d still be happy if we could just take our time talking more than usual.”

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Do you think he really means that we’d just talk the whole time? I can’t help feeling that spending all those hours—from lunch until around 5 p.m.—would be a waste of time. (The allowance would also be the dinner-only amount.) If that’s the case, I’d rather watch a movie or go window-shopping than just laze around in a room… He seems to want to relax in a room, but since I might be on my period that day, would it be okay to suggest, “Why don’t we see a movie instead?”
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I’m Aya, a female member. “Of course, you don’t have to push yourself, but I’d be happy just to have the chance to talk more leisurely than usual.” ↓ In this case, there’s a good chance that papa (a male supporter) won’t try anything, and if he does, you can always say no. If you’d like to watch a movie, why not suggest: “Thank you♡ Would it be possible to watch DVDs in the room at that hotel? There are a few movies I’d love to watch with you, XX.” How about watching a movie in the room? Some high-end hotels have DVD players, and even if they don’t, they may be able to lend you one. If that isn’t possible, suggesting that you go to a movie theater instead wouldn’t be rude given the circumstances.
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It’s Seattle. By now, your papa is probably feeling frustrated, thinking, “What a shame—I can’t be intimate with her, but it’s too late to say anything now.” If there’s a good movie theater nearby and a suitable showtime, I think it would be fine to suggest going to a movie. I’m only saying this so you can prepare yourself: window-shopping can be fun, but if you’re not that close with your papa, you should make it clear that you’re not doing it so he’ll buy you things. Otherwise, if he ends up buying you things without intimacy, he might cut you off. Of course, if you’re fine with cutting off a low-paying papa, that’s another matter. Also, he may be thinking about having you do something intimate in his room. If that happens, negotiate an additional allowance before going through with it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/9308 I don’t have superpowers, so I can’t know for sure whether they really only talked. I also don’t know what I could say to satisfy that man.
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