What’s the difference in mindset between papas who give women gifts and those who don’t?
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My papas include one who gives me lavish gifts for every special occasion (worth several hundred thousand yen or more), one who gives me things I currently need (worth around tens of thousands of yen), and one who gives me a bundle of cash when I seem to want some extra income.
Then there are those who give me things like keychains or seasonal gift sets that they could hand out to anyone, those who simply ask, “Let me know if there’s anything you want,” and those who never bring up gifts at all.
*I’ve never asked any of them for gifts myself.
Their allowances are all more or less the same, and they’re all good people, but I can’t help prioritizing the papas who give me gifts over those who don’t. I’m sorry.
I’m curious about the difference in their thinking. Does it reflect how they feel about women involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the president’s office.
I think a man’s attitude toward giving gifts depends on his past experiences: whether he was happy to receive gifts himself, and whether the person he gave a gift to was absolutely delighted.
Someone who has had experiences where they felt happy or saw the other person genuinely thrilled will probably give gifts. Someone without those experiences probably won’t.
Of course, a man also needs to have enough financial leeway to give presents.
So, if the person asking the question receives a gift, please show your happiness to the fullest—jump for joy and give him a hug, as if to say, “This is more than enough!”
That way, the person who gave the gift will feel it was worth more than what he spent, and he’ll want to give you another gift.
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I’m in Seattle.
At the nine-figure level, I still don’t have enough room to go overboard with gifts.
Am I lucky enough to meet a ten-figure-level ideal supporter?
Of course it’s only natural to prioritize.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I can definitely understand why you’d be so drawn to a papa who gives you presents. It’s the thought that counts—the time and care he put into imagining all the things you might like.
I think he’s probably just someone who genuinely loves giving gifts. Maybe he’s like Maatan, the living-legend company president who supported Emiri Aizawa’s sales.
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Are you the kind of person who gives presents?
Can you quickly think of something you’d like to give?
If ideas like that come to you one after another, you’re probably someone who enjoys giving presents.
I tend to overthink it, so I’m not very good at it.
I think that’s the difference.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s about having different feelings. I think it simply comes down to whether the man himself enjoys giving things to women. There probably isn’t any particularly deep reason behind it.
But when you say a bundle of cash, do you mean one million yen? That’s incredible.
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