Every time, I go see the person I like determined that this time I won’t have sex and won’t become a convenient woman, but I can never resist and end up sleeping with him. The only time I haven’t had sex with him was when I was on my period. We always spend the night together, and I get so aroused just lying next to him that my underwear ends up soaked. He doesn’t even give me any foreplay—I just please him and have unprotected sex with him. Every time, I think I have to stop doing this, and that if I keep seeing him without refusing sex, I’ll become nothing more than a convenient woman. But I can never hold back. I feel like I’d even climb on top of him and have sex with him while he was asleep. I’m naturally extremely submissive, so I enjoy it when he “rapes” me, when he chokes me, and even face-fucking feels good. He knows that I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and that I have other partners I have sex with. Once, during sex, he said, “You’ve been with someone other than me recently, haven’t you?” and I got incredibly turned on. I said, “Don’t say something that kills the mood,” but inside I was thinking, “I went on a trip with another papa (a male supporter), and I even spent the night at home with another papa and had sex lots of times♡♡ You didn’t have to say that right in the middle of sex when we were getting so into it. You’re so cute♡” I’m messed up, right?
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I think about wanting to have sex with him all day, every day. At this point, I don’t even know whether I like him or just like having sex with him. I don’t want to become a convenient woman, but I’m going out of my way to become one, aren’t I?
How can I control my excitement when I’m next to him?
I’m Osaka, one of the male members.
Honestly, you’re the kind of questioner I’d find adorable no matter what you said or did, lol. You’re having fun with it, so that’s all that matters. Can’t be helped—approved, approved, lol.
You should become an answerer!
Anyway, answers that start with wild fantasies and somehow end up in sexy territory are the best, right?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It sounds like you not only like him, but have also built a good relationship with your papa (a male supporter).
You say you’re a woman who suits his needs, but isn’t this also a convenient arrangement for you?
There are plenty of people with unconventional preferences.
Enjoy it going forward.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
The reason you’ve become a convenient woman is that, aside from sex, you don’t have anything to offer him. You’re fundamentally looking at this the wrong way.
You can only start your “break free from being a convenient woman” challenge once he invites you to do something other than have sex. As things stand, there’s no demand for anything beyond sex, so I don’t think you’ll be able to escape being his convenient woman.
You should make an effort—cook for him, or come up with outing plans he’d enjoy.
Then again, maybe it’s fine to stay as his convenient woman for now. You seem to be having fun.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t understand the idea that having sex makes you a convenient woman.
So I don’t think you need to hold back your excitement when you’re by his side.
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This is Ayase Nana ♡
You want to do all sorts of things with him, right? I wonder if your bodies are compatible too. Why not try it every day? Before long, you might reach a state of enlightenment through sheer emptiness.
If he’s not enough, make lots of other papa (male supporters) and go at it intensely.
Just be careful not to catch an STI.
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If everything revolves around your sex drive to that extent,
then both the papas who fulfill that role and even give you money, and the boyfriend who satisfies not only your sexual desires but also your feelings of affection,
seem like exceptionally convenient people for you to have around.
Akari
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