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Oct 16, 2021 06:58
Honestly, have any of you seen a woman who seemed emotionally unwell when you first met her gradually regain her energy? Even though Universe says that only people who are mentally and physically healthy should register, I don’t think you can tell whether someone has a mental illness unless it’s visibly apparent. There were men I met who seemed absolutely unwell, and I was also going through an extremely difficult time mentally when I first registered. I initially signed up because I needed money for binge eating and wanted to enjoy delicious food using someone else’s money. Because I couldn’t eat normally due to bingeing and purging, I was extremely thin—so thin that a staff member even wrote in my profile comments that I looked like I might break. (A papa told me that.) I never showed that side of myself in front of my papas, but at the psychiatric clinic I would scream and lash out at my parents, and I cried uncontrollably during every counseling session lol.
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It’s been a year since I registered with the club and started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I still vomit every day. However, I’ve gained 3–4 kg, and I no longer feel as strongly as I used to about wanting to lose more weight. My papas have also told me that I look healthier and that I’m better off now. I think it’s probably because I’ve been able to date papas without stress and now have plenty of money. I’m still dealing with an eating disorder, and my BMI is still on the low side, so I’m not exactly in perfect health, but I clearly feel that I’ve become more emotionally stable over the past year.
After developing an eating disorder, I became distant from my family, couldn’t do anything, and thought my life was over. But because I developed the disorder and started papa-katsu, I met papas I truly came to love. In the end, I reconciled with my family, built up a lot of savings, became more than 10 kg lighter than I originally was, and can now wear the clothes I like. So maybe things worked out for the best after all.
Have any of you male members had women around you recover from a mental illness?
