I’m getting along well with a Black B-type member, including an adult relationship.
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Apparently, it’s a red ocean, and she says that when she receives an offer, she checks the person’s profile, turns down overweight men, and also refuses men whose profiles haven’t been made available to her.
I’ve made my own profile public and also share my photos with anyone I make an offer to. So I suppose I at least met her minimum standards.
To all the female members out there: do you decide whether to accept an offer based on the other person’s profile?
Club comments sometimes say that appearance isn’t important, but when it comes to relationships between men and women, I think both sides naturally have their own sense of whether they could or couldn’t be intimate with someone at first sight.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve been turned down once because of the occupation listed on my profile.
I think there are two reasons women decline: either they receive so many offers that they can afford to choose, or they’re worried their occupation could make them identifiable.
Still, this sounds like a rather boastful question—as if dating a Black B-type is the ultimate sign of success at the club.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I was wondering why so many of the answers seemed a little sharp, but apparently there was some backstory involving Black B-type women. I looked up how many Black B-types there are, thinking, “How many could there be?” Turns out they’re incredibly rare. Among a membership base of 6,700, dating a Black B-type is about as rare as saying, “I keep an Okinawa rail as a pet.” Though personally, I think sparrows are cuter.
Not just Black B-types—my impression is that many B-types care about profiles. I’ve had women ask, “Isn’t there a profile?” after I made an offer, so I disclosed it. Another woman said when we met, “For some reason, I was able to see your profile this time, so I felt really relieved.” Apparently, the person who made her an offer before hadn’t disclosed theirs.
On the other hand, there are also women who make me wonder, “Did she even read it?” They never bring anything up, or when I mention something written in my profile, they react as if they’re hearing it for the first time. That seems common with C-types, but I’ve met B-types like that too. I don’t think the class has much to do with it.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
I’d like to see the profile of anyone who makes me an offer.
I don’t know anything about their hobbies, their age is only roughly stated, and I can’t even see their registered class or location (汗)
My hobbies are golf (though I’m terrible at it), visiting buildings like the Bank of Japan and other modern architecture, going to hot springs, and taking drives. But if the only purpose is to have something to talk about—or to see if they can get lucky once?
If we have absolutely nothing in common, I don’t see any point in meeting. I know nothing about baseball, and it isn’t something I’m interested in artistically, so if someone tells me, “I’ve only ever played baseball,” it’s not like the conversation is going to continue. They’ve never even played golf.
It made me think, “How do they even manage to run a company?”
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
As I mentioned in my previous answer, Black B is a great opportunity for men because there’s less competition and fewer rivals. It’s not a red-ocean market—in fact, I feel both men and women can take their time and pursue arrangements in a relaxed, unhurried way. Since women don’t receive an overwhelming number of offers (only Black members can make offers), they can also respond and interact calmly and rationally.
Even without a profile, I don’t think they would turn you down as long as the staff’s brief introduction is appropriate.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Are you entering the “subtle humblebrag” contest?
Nah, I’ll keep it moderate—people might latch onto this later, lol.
Anyway, putting a photo in your profile takes effort too, and if it’s helping you get offers accepted, then viva handsome guys!
Of course, having good looks is better than not having them, so you’re in a good position. But don’t get overconfident—some women will reject you based on that alone. The competition is fierce and runs deep.
Good luck!
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
In my case, I’m not a black-tier member, but I only show my profile to women I’ve made an offer to (I don’t make my photos public).
Well, I’m an old man, so I suppose I don’t always meet a certain standard—I’ve been turned down before. But I think it’s perfectly fine for someone to decline me. Women have the right to choose, too.
More importantly, I focus on the relationship itself.
The women I meet are beautiful and young. From my perspective, they still have plenty of room to grow, but I try to be patient with the things I can tolerate. And even though our relationship involves money, I do my best so that, in the end, they’ll think, “He was a good old man.”
There’s no doubt that the women I see would much rather have a young, handsome, wealthy papa (a male supporter), though… haha.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
As long as you’re paying an allowance, it will never increase your own value.
It’s an illusion.
Take away the allowance, and we have no value as people. None.
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