Tips Oct 14, 2021 19:00

I’d like to ask the men here: Do you ever get butterflies from the reactions or things a woman you genuinely like says during intimate moments? When I asked the man I’m dating, he said, “I liked it when you repeatedly told me you loved me, or when you asked me to do something and seemed flustered because you weren’t used to it. Though maybe you were just acting...” So I wanted to hear your thoughts!

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I’m especially passive during intimate moments and don’t have much variety. I’d like to say more, but I worry that talking too much might make me seem experienced. I don’t want to come across as too accustomed to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’m looking for techniques that would make men happy. I’d really appreciate your advice!
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Men tell me, “I love watching your face when you’re enjoying yourself.” Shingori, there’s no “I’ve never experienced anything like this before” with a woman in her late 40s… Marika
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Exactly. There was a woman who was incredibly accommodating from our very first encounter, and I found myself assuming she had experience in the sex industry. After a while, though, the over-the-top attentiveness stopped and things became more normal, which was a relief. I think she was probably making an extra effort at first out of consideration. She’s a hard worker. I was wrong to be suspicious. As for technique… well, I suppose a certain level of it is necessary. Sex is an emotional spark, isn’t it? lol It’s all about feelings.
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer. Men seem to be really drawn to words like “first” and “the best.” “This is the first time it’s felt this good.” “You’re the first person I’ve ever gone this far with.” “You feel the best.” “I’ve never seen one that big before.”
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m really drawn to those reactions that show she’s enjoying herself.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ I recently made my threesome debut. During the encounter, I told Mr. ○○ that my private parts were exclusively for him, and he said, “That’s so sexy!” Well, they are exclusively his~ (^з^)-♡ I don’t know what he really thought, but I’d be happy if it made his heart flutter.
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