I haven’t seen my papa (a male supporter), whom I used to meet about three times a month, for two months, but he calls me once or twice a week after work.

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We don’t usually message each other. Why is that? Even though he’s seeing other women… (He confirmed this himself.) By the way, my pay-per-meeting allowance is ¥50,000, which he says is high.

Answer 1

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. Aren’t you trying to turn this into a war of attrition, waiting for you to be the one to say, “An allowance of 30,000 yen is fine”?

Answer 2

I’m Dai, a male member. When you talk to your papa on the phone, why not say something like, “We haven’t seen each other in two months. When can we meet again?” I don’t know what your phone conversations are like, so you may have already said something along those lines… Either way, there’s far too little information to go on.

Answer 3

I’m Osaka, a male member. Well then, shall we imagine a familiar scenario? ♡ ・・・・ Nothing comes to mind. I really can’t come up with anything (T_T) This question has an incredible “who cares?” vibe. Are you a genius?

Answer 4

I’m Kazu, a male member. You should ask him directly. Why ask on a Q&A site about something only he would really know? If I had to guess, he may have gotten bored with you and started seeing other women, but is keeping in touch just in case none of them turn out to be as good as you. That way, he won’t lose his connection with you. If 5 is considered high, he may not be bored with you after all—he might simply be looking for women whose allowance is less than 5.

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