When you reactivate your account after taking a break, will the staff describe your reason for returning in detail in their comments? (For example, looking for a new connection, having just ended a relationship, wanting to meet more partners, etc.)

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. Even without you saying so, I can imagine that’s probably the case—that you’ve reached a point where you need offers and are ready to receive them.

I’ll answer as Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu. When someone resumes after taking a break, I don’t think they usually write much at all. In the first place, they seem to be saying that breaks should generally be limited to about a month or so—though a little longer is probably fine if the time of resuming is clear. When re-registering, people do write a little more, but even then, I don’t recall them saying much about the reason. > Is it safer not to write something like, “Because I ended things with the person I had been seeing”? I assume that’s probably the case, but if you write that, it makes things definite. I think it’s better to leave it somewhat open-ended, like, “I wonder what the situation really is?” So yes, it’s safer not to mention it. > Would it make a better impression to write something like a self-introduction, as you would when registering for the first time? People will understand that you aren’t registering for the first time, so I don’t think you need to model it after a new registration. A self-introduction is fine, or you could write about the kind of person you’d like to meet.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t get the impression that staff usually include the reason when someone returns after taking a break. Personally, I’d have a better impression if they wrote something like, “She ended things with the person she had been seeing.”

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. > When someone resumes their membership after taking a break, do the staff write the reason for resuming in detail in their comments? (For example, looking for a new connection, having just ended a relationship, wanting to increase the number of people they’re seeing, etc.) It seems the staff don’t include specific details in their comments. I have seen a personal comment that said, “I recently ended things with the person I was seeing.” That woman had been hidden from view until then, but after a little while, she became hidden again—perhaps because she found someone new to date. I thought, “So there are women who pursue relationships that way, too.” It felt very true to the kind of relationships found through a dating club, and personally, I found it rather refreshing.