How often should I update my profile?

I’m Ayase Nana ♡ You should update your profile comment at least once every two weeks. Once a month? It’ll get buried right away. When someone takes a quick look, try highlighting something that stands out. If it were me, I’d mention things like being exceptionally skilled, oil massages, or golf—people will probably keep reading to the end. For now, try experimenting with different things.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well. > I filled out the mistress assessment questionnaire. Will my profile be bumped to the top of the page from that too, not just from the comment section of my profile? I believe the staff manually copied the responses into the comments, so if they changed the profile’s last-updated date at that time, it would appear near the top of the homepage. But I have a feeling they didn’t change the update date, so I don’t think its ranking was boosted. That said, if the staff happened to change the update date while they were at it, then it probably would move up. > If I update it too often, I’m worried that I’ll come across as desperate and actually miss out on offers. By “too often,” I imagine you mean something like every day. So updating it once every two weeks wouldn’t be frequent at all. Since you want to receive offers, I think it would be perfectly fine to change the comment once a week. Even if people think, “She must really want offers,” I don’t think that interval would make them decide not to contact you. So updating it about once a week should be fine. > Is once a month too often? I think that’s actually not very often.

I’m Dai, a male member. Other than getting new photos taken, the things that seem to boost your profile’s visibility are new comments and private photos. I’m not entirely sure whether filling out the “mistress compatibility” questionnaire counts as a new comment. However, men can see the date when a woman’s comments were updated, whereas they can’t tell when her private photos were added. So if you don’t want to look desperate, private photos might be the better option. That said, there have been times when I liked a woman’s refined, classy look in her club photos, but held back from making an offer after seeing her private photos because she looked more like a gal. Changing your image too drastically is something to think carefully about. Swimsuit photos seem to get a lot of likes, but I imagine they don’t necessarily lead to that many offers.

I’ve always felt that questions like, “You don’t seriously expect me—a young, beautiful college student—to meet some frail, wrinkled old geezer unless he pays me a fortune, right?” end up causing a great deal of trouble for other young women like you who genuinely want to value every offer they receive. Then offers become concentrated on girls who stand out as exceptionally cute like the one above, while ordinary cute girls like you don’t get any offers. Maybe it’s an issue with how the staff promote people, or maybe the men just aren’t good judges. Putting that aside, if I were a man, I’d want to date someone like you. Try writing a comment that shows what a lovely personality you have. Apparently, the trick is to make the first line eye-catching. Otherwise, people won’t bother opening your page to look at it. It’s difficult for women since they can’t see who’s viewing their pages, though. Good luck! Marika

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Finding the right update frequency is tricky. If someone updates too often, it can come across as desperate, but if their profile isn’t updated at all, you may wonder, “Are they even active?” If I had to choose between the two, I’d be more favorably impressed by women who update frequently. At least it shows they’re taking their club activities seriously. If you don’t want to seem desperate, personally, I think once a month is a good frequency. It might also be a good idea to add some private photos when you update. Be careful with heavily edited photos, though, as they don’t seem to leave a very good impression.