Tips
Oct 8, 2021 16:03
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If she’s cute, men who suit her needs will approach her regardless of whether they’re older or younger.
It shouldn’t matter even if she works or studies somewhere with hardly any men.
I’ve never seen a cute young woman who was genuinely desperate for male attention, so I find girls who honestly say they’re doing it for the money more likable.
4 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s not particularly scary.
Some women are looking for sexual enjoyment, too.
I’m sure there are also women who want to meet an attractive older man.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
“Trouble” is a pretty deep word, so I let my imagination run wild.
What if a young, incredibly cute girl who wasn’t struggling financially at all said, “I don’t need any allowance—if anything, I’ll give you money♡,” and we continued seeing each other?
I’d probably wonder, “Why would a girl this cute want me?” but I’d be so happy that I’d keep the relationship going.
Then I’d probably get overconfident, start thinking, “I’m such a handsome older guy. I’m popular,” and bask in my own glory lol.
One night, I’m standing in front of the mirror, humming to myself and feeling on top of the world, when I notice something black behind me…
What? Wait—is that hair? I look up at the ceiling, and—
There’s her upside-down face.
“Like that would ever happen!” she screams.
Scary. Yeah, definitely scary.
I thought it was scary too, just like the person who asked the question.
…Or not.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s not scary.
When people talk about a “convenient man,” they might mean someone who drives them around, someone who’s good in bed, someone to kill time with, or perhaps someone who might marry them and support them for life. So I don’t find it strange that this could also include an older man who gives them spending money.
And I don’t see anything odd about using a dating club as a place to meet these “convenient men”—in other words, older men who provide spending money.
If she isn’t struggling financially, assuming she must be desperate for men seems like a pretty narrow-minded way of thinking.
**P.S.**
I just remembered that when I was around twenty, there were a few mature girls around me who dated older men without receiving any allowance. They’d go out for a slightly nicer meal, spend time together, and occasionally have sex.
Maybe seeing women like that is why I feel the way I do in my answer above.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It’s not scary at all. You’re not going to get hurt or have your money stolen, so I honestly don’t understand what there is to be afraid of.