It’s not very convincing for a college student living alone who says she’s struggling financially to own designer items, have cosmetic surgery, orthodontic treatment, and hair removal, is it?
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She says that because she can’t think of any other reason for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but in reality, she isn’t struggling financially at all.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I want to enjoy some good food.
I want to have a good time in bed.
Is that not enough?
By the way, I’m just guessing, but I think Type E might be a good fit for you, questioner.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you say it’s not very convincing, I suppose that may be true. To begin with, even if someone tells me, “I’m having financial problems,” all I can think is, “Oh, I see. That sounds tough—good luck working hard,” haha.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
If someone presents themselves as being in financial trouble, but their profile is full of information suggesting otherwise, then I agree—it may not be very convincing.
The allowance I gave belongs to the person who asked the question, so I’m not interested in how they spend it, and I don’t think I have the right to interfere. If they ask for advice, though, I’ll give it.
It’s entirely possible that she actually earns more per month than her papa. And even if I found out she wasn’t really struggling, nothing would change. I’d just think, “So what?” lol
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After reading Kazu’s answer, I realized that the questioner is simply being honest—the lie is that she isn’t having money troubles, right? lol
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I’m Aya, a female member.
A handsome older papa who’s experienced with women will probably see right through you. My papa sometimes says, “I don’t like people who don’t understand the value of money”… So even though I’ve saved enough that I never have to work again, I’ll live modestly for the rest of my life.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
College students who own luxury-brand items and have had cosmetic surgery, orthodontic work, or hair removal done seem like they might be short on money. Without doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), they probably wouldn’t be able to afford those brand-name items or beauty treatments. I think it’s fair to say they’re financially struggling in that situation.
On the other hand, if they’re simply choosing to save their money instead of spending it, then it wouldn’t feel strange to say they aren’t struggling financially.
Also, it’s not necessarily true that someone has to be short on money in order to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Adding this after reading Osaka’s answer:
> I see what you mean. After reading Kazu’s answer, I realized the questioner is simply being honest, and the lie is that they aren’t struggling financially, lol.
Yes. I think “struggling financially” is a fairly deep concept. It doesn’t only mean being unable to pay one’s bills.
I wouldn’t go so far as to call it a lie, but I do think the questioner may not really understand money.
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