Do you really not pull out, deep-throat, or ejaculate on the face of the person you truly love?
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Is what this article says actually true?
Do you not do things like this to your beloved wife—even if you’ve become sexually inactive, but were still intimate in the past—or to a girlfriend you truly care about?
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
Rather than whether someone is important to you, I think it depends on how you became boyfriend and girlfriend.
If you gradually get closer through an office romance, it might be difficult. But with dating apps, some people talk about sex early on and then start dating. If both people understand each other’s preferences, I think they may engage in BDSM even in a serious relationship.
Some couples may even have unprotected sex and leave it up to fate, thinking, “If we have a child, we’ll get married,” precisely because they’re important to each other.
Someone important to me was really into sex as a submissive, so we used the rhythm method and had unprotected sex on supposedly safe days, along with choking, restraints, outdoor sex, and humiliation play. I loved her so much…
I didn’t necessarily want to take things that far, but I loved her, you know…
Rather than saying that doing ●● means they aren’t serious, I think it’s more that if you don’t feel genuinely cared for, then it’s probably just a casual fling.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
When I was younger, I eventually ejaculated on my first wife’s face and in her mouth.
That’s something you can only do with someone who’s truly special to you.
I don’t understand what’s enjoyable about doing that with someone who isn’t.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
There are all kinds of men, so I don’t think that article tells the whole story.
As for me, I’m not interested in facial ejaculation or deep-throat, so I don’t do either.
Before we got married, my wife and I had sex without condoms, using withdrawal. But I’ve never had unprotected sex at brothels or through a dating club.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
If I tried to have sex with my wife without a condom for anything other than trying to conceive, she’d kill me. I know the physical and emotional pain of having an abortion. She’d normally kill me for suggesting deep-throating, ejaculating on her face, or anal sex too. She might be okay with being on top once in a while, though.
Even if I imagined someone important to me instead of my wife, I’d probably be in the weaker position with a woman I had that kind of relationship with, so I think she’d still kill me—even if she were someone important to me.
In other words, when it comes to my wife or someone important to me, I don’t refrain because I cherish them, but because I’m afraid of them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
For me, it only feels good when it’s with a woman I’m genuinely serious about. Doing it with someone I’m just playing around with doesn’t excite me.
For example, I honestly can’t understand what’s supposed to be enjoyable about ejaculating on a sex worker’s face.
I don’t think the article’s argument is correct.
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