Men who like thin women tend to comment on women’s bodies, don’t they? The man I like, who is also my papa and casual partner, probably prefers slim girls.

I sometimes go with him to a snack bar where his female friend works. They’ve never had any physical relationship, but she has a body type that’s hard to call slim. She’s probably around 155–160 cm tall and weighs about 55–65 kg—not fat, but somewhat curvy. Maybe it’s because he’s had a few drinks, but he comments on her body every time. They’ve apparently known each other for 10 years, yet he says things like, “You’d be cute if you lost weight,” and “Your face is cute, so you should lose weight.” She has a boyfriend, too, and from my perspective, if there’s a man who likes her as she is, she has no reason to lose weight. But realistically, doesn’t she get hurt every time he points out her body? I’m 160 cm tall and weigh 42 kg, so I’m slim. I have an E-cup bust, and he compliments me by saying I’m slim, well-endowed, and have a great figure. So I’ve never had anyone point out that I’m overweight. However, I’m only this thin while still struggling with an eating disorder, so I understand very well how it feels to be unable to control your appetite (I eat a whole kilogram of rice every day). Even if he isn’t her boyfriend, wouldn’t most women feel self-conscious if a man commented on their body? He says he would never sleep with his female friend and that they would never have that kind of relationship. But I think that’s simply because her body type isn’t his preference.