Are girls who lick a guy’s chest considered experienced? What things make you think a girl is experienced if she does them to you?

I’m Dai, a male member. Any kind of play that wouldn’t occur to someone living an ordinary life comes across as something a professional would do. If she’s only ever had sex that seemed “professional,” I think she’ll see through any act sooner or later. The best approach might be to invent an especially kinky ex-boyfriend and say he taught her all of that.

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well. > What kinds of things make someone seem experienced? I think that doing anything of your own initiative can make you seem experienced. So, in that sense, it may be better not to do anything until the other person tells you to. That said, some people aren’t just looking for an innocent, inexperienced woman—they’re looking for someone who can enjoy intimacy itself. I think it’s important to distinguish between those types. In this case, you said: > “I told him I’d never kissed anyone or held hands before, and he seemed flustered and kept telling me how innocent I was.” So it sounds like you already knew he probably liked women who weren’t very experienced. With that kind of man, I think it’s best to wait for him to say things like, “Do this” or “Try that.” Otherwise, it should be fine to act naturally, as you usually would. If he asks, “Where did you learn that?” you could simply say: “I watched videos online and did some research.” > Even in papa-katsu, should I actually avoid things like licking balls or nipple play? For the first meeting, it might be best to hold back and see how things go. Other than that, doing things normally may be just right.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Because I preferred offering dates to women with experience in the adult-entertainment industry, we often talked about how they could keep their boyfriends from finding out. I’ll share that valuable know-how here. You’re welcome（笑） The key is simple: don’t make the first move yourself. Lie back and be passive. If you don’t initiate anything, you’ll seem inexperienced. On the other hand, women who take the initiative tend to look like they’re used to it. Incidentally, according to women with experience in the adult-entertainment industry, some people enjoy having their balls touched or licked, while others don’t. The same goes for nipples. So if you immediately start licking nipples or balls, you still have a long way to go. A true expert will first touch them lightly, observe the reaction, and then decide whether to focus on that area. Whether you should avoid doing this in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) depends on the other person. I find it boring when a woman is completely passive, so there won’t be a second meeting for me. But apparently some men prefer women with little experience—almost virgins—so I think it’s better to avoid acting that way with those men.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ At first, I think it’s best to mostly let him take the lead. If he asks you to go down on him, it’s probably best to act a little shy and take it slow. But definitely don’t do things like rimming.