There are quite a few men who, when I turn them down after they ask to have unprotected sex, say, “But you do it with your boyfriend, right?” Is that just how men from older generations are?
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They’re taking some serious risks.
At least, including all my boyfriends, I’ve never once been asked or pressured to have unprotected sex.
If you genuinely care about someone, using a condom for protection shouldn’t be a big deal.
I understand that this is a dating club, so I suppose it’s not unusual for someone to suggest going without one. But is the difference in attitudes really that much of a generational gap?
It’s sad that some generations didn’t receive proper sex education.
Someone who’s thinking clearly wouldn’t ask just anyone to go bare.
The ones who say things like, “I’m responsible,” “I never ask anyone else,” or “You’re the only one” are no different—they’re just pathetic.
Whether you refuse or not has nothing to do with age, nor is it related to how strong-willed you are.
So please do your best to protect yourself.
—Akari
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Maybe the woman asking the question just isn’t someone you’d want to be intimate with without protection.
I don’t feel like doing that myself, but it seems like you just want to make fun of men from the older generation.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
Huh?
You’re saying he properly asked for the woman’s opinion, right?
What’s wrong with that?
If he does it without asking, or keeps doing it even after she says no, then the man is 100% at fault.
But if he properly asks the woman…
Hmm. I really don’t understand what the problem is.
If you’re saying that asking in itself is wrong, then all I can say is that the questioner’s sense of things is off.
Could this be that fake sense of righteousness that’s been spreading lately?
When an incident happens, some people try to identify the person involved. Then they harass that person, and sometimes the harassment itself is a crime. I wonder if this is the same mindset as people who harass others while believing they’re acting in the name of justice.
Before long, they’ll probably start saying strange things like, “Are men from that generation really like that?” just because an older man invited someone to a hotel after dinner.
“I’ve never been invited by anyone my own age. Are they more aggressive?”
“We’re herbivores, after all.”
It’s scary to think they might start saying things like that without knowing anything about that generation.
If the questioner doesn’t like it, all they have to do is say no.
Why pretend to be righteous by bringing up danger, sex education, and things like that?
Can’t you simply accept that different kinds of people exist?
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
A lot of them try to have unprotected sex.
They act like it’s completely normal and try to go ahead without protection.
I’m pretty sure they do it with everyone. Personally, I only do that with someone I’m committed to. It’s scary otherwise, right?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Yes, exactly. Men from that generation generally never received proper sex education, so unless they take the initiative to learn about it, they don’t understand the risks of STIs, AIDS, or pregnancy. I think you’ll have to explain it to him yourself.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
I used to wonder whether there were really that many people asking for it “raw,” but there are certainly a lot of posts about it. It’s like, “Raw again?”
But the questioner is absolutely right. Completely right.
I don’t think it’s a generation gap at all—it’s simply a lack of morals.
It’s admirable that you properly turned them down. Don’t let them get you down. I really wish people would think once again about what a gentlemanly relationship should be.
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