I have a papa who keeps using painfully cheesy dirty talk. Lately, he seems especially fixated on phrases like, “Your pussy is flooding,” and “Tell me specifically what you like about my penis,” repeating them over and over. It’s really annoying.
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I start feeling like I’m going to laugh and can’t concentrate, so I have a hard time reaching climax. My papa often tells me, “You’re the type who has trouble coming,” but I can if I’m able to focus.
He’s good-looking, so he seems like someone who must have had plenty of experience, and I always wonder why no one has ever said anything about his painfully cheesy dirty talk. Would it be a bad idea to tell him I want him to stop because I want to focus during sex?
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I think it’s fine to be honest about it, but bring it up casually and jokingly when you’re not having sex. For example, instead of saying it directly to your partner, you could hint at it by saying something like, “A friend of mine was saying her boyfriend is terrible in bed, and apparently he uses this kind of dirty talk…” That way, you’re getting the message across indirectly.
I also have another suggestion: try immersing yourself in that world yourself. Think of it as being like the world of an erotic manga, dive into that mindset, and become one of the characters.
Surprisingly, you may even reach things like a “brain orgasm” by immersing yourself in that kind of fantasy.
I sometimes bring people to a brain orgasm too, but at first, it’s basically just playful role-play on both sides.
It starts with lines like, “Come on, get off if I slap you!” and “I’m cummingggg!”—even though they really aren’t. Gradually, it becomes real, and eventually they can actually get off from being slapped.
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I’m not good at it either.
But if I like the person and the sex itself feels good, I’ll whisper the words they want to hear in their ear.
Seeing them pleased makes me happy too.
Marika
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> He’s good-looking, though...
But I think the reason nobody takes him seriously anymore and he’s ended up at a dating club is that all he ever says is things like:
> “Your pussy is flooding.”
> “Tell me specifically what you like about my dick.”
You should tell him:
“This is a visit!
I can’t finish when I can’t concentrate, so just keep quiet and get on with it!”
（笑）
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since it’s a matter of personal preference, I think a man’s satisfaction will decrease if he doesn’t say anything. Even if he isn’t hurt by being called out, holding back will still reduce his satisfaction, so I think the risks of bringing it up are quite significant.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Men are sensitive creatures—when they lose confidence in their sexual performance, they may not be able to get an erection.
If he’s particularly good-looking, he may be even more sensitive to feeling hurt, so it might be safer to avoid that.
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