Tips Sep 29, 2021 17:42

There’s a man who always wants to start in the cowgirl position.

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When I put it in and start moving, he grabs my hips and tries to stop me, saying, “I’m gonna come! No, no, don’t!” So I pause and kiss him, and then he moves me to the sofa, where the usual routine is doggy style followed by missionary to finish. Would it be okay to ignore him when he desperately tries to stop my movements, saying he’s about to come, and just keep moving my hips until he does? Would he think, “I wanted to enjoy it longer—what’s wrong with this woman?!” By the way, he tells me “You’re so cute” every time. He also says things like, “I’m so happy to be dating someone this cute,” “You’re like a celebrity,” and “I can’t imagine my life without you anymore.” Does he really mean it, or is it just an ulterior motive? I assume it’s probably the latter, but are men really capable of saying this much flattering stuff just to make sex with a woman more exciting?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. You can say any number of polite niceties. Aren’t women also saying them to receive their allowance? I believe it’s a woman’s responsibility, when receiving an allowance, to make sure the man has a pleasant time, so she shouldn’t act on her own without asking.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. She probably doesn’t even know how she’d feel about reaching climax in the cowgirl position. I think it depends on her mood that day. She seems to like the sequence of cowgirl → standing rear-entry → missionary, so I think it’s probably safer not to change that. As for her constantly showering me with compliments, I got the impression that she’s simply someone who enjoys doing that. There’s a somewhat detached part of me that gets in the way, so I can’t do that myself.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. It seems this papa likes the routine of cowgirl → standing doggy style → missionary. He might feel less satisfied if they only stick to one position (lol). I imagine he’ll enjoy it more if you just go with the flow without changing that routine. A young woman is taking the time to be with an older man. She doesn’t want him to dislike her, and wants him to feel as good as possible and get more excited. Naturally, I think the papa will try hard and shower her with praise.
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