Sometimes a male member tells me, “You’re tighter today.”
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That means I’m usually loose, right??
Honestly, I would never have sex with some older man who isn’t even my boyfriend—someone twelve years older, or possibly more than twenty-four years older—if I weren’t doing it for the money.
Before meeting him, I mentally rehearse having sex with my favorite celebrity or an ex-boyfriend. If I can get myself in the mood, I feel like I can enjoy sex with the older man too by closing my eyes and convincing myself in my head that it feels good, which also seems to make me tighter....
There was an older man who once responded here rather aggressively, asking whether I could really tell how tight my vagina was. Well, yes, I can.
Regardless of a man’s size or thickness, when I’m tight (when I mentally erase the older man in front of me and imagine that I’m having incredibly pleasurable sex with someone I love), I can feel my vagina wrapping around him.
I wish I could get myself in the mood that way every time, but I can’t always manage it.....
I want to keep doing my best as the other person’s convenient way to relieve his sexual urges and get as much money out of him as possible. Does vaginal pressure training actually work?
Even if your vaginal pressure is good, don’t you think a woman’s mental state plays an incredibly, incredibly, incredibly important role in whether she feels pleasure? ← This question is for the female members.
> Don’t you think that, even if a woman has good vaginal tightness, her mental state plays a really, really, really big role in whether she feels good?
It has a huge impact. It also affects whether or not she reaches orgasm.
But that’s a separate issue from how your partner feels. I often end up being liked by men even though I’m not enjoying myself, which can make breaking things off difficult. Of course, when it’s someone I met through a club, things don’t usually get complicated like that…
I don’t think training is completely pointless, either. Some men let out an “Ahh” when I consciously tighten, so it’s fun—I deliberately squeeze a little here and there to tease them (lol).
Putting aside people like Mac-san, who are obsessed with tightness above all else, there seems to be more to assessing how things feel down there than pressure alone. Even what people call a “legendary” vagina isn’t judged solely by tightness, right? I’ve asked men various questions, but I still can’t really figure out what the reality is.
Ah, I’d love to become a man for a day and try it myself.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If someone tells you, “You’re tighter today,” I think the only thing you can conclude is that the man who said it lacks tact.
Vaginal pressure training may have some value in helping you develop the habit of intentionally tightening those muscles. However, much like beauty treatments, I feel it’s largely about personal satisfaction.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Since tightness is such a delicate subject, I’d rather people not make comments like “How was it today?” A girl wouldn’t say to her papa, “You weren’t quite up to par today—why don’t you try taking Viagra?”
Once, a shitty ex told me something judgmental like, “Your breasts are small, but you’re tight,” and ever since then, I’ve worried about it. So I once asked my handsome older papa anxiously, “Do you think I’m really tight enough?”
He said, “Anyone who comments on whether someone is tight or not has no tact. Your ex? What an idiot. You don’t need to say things like that to a woman. If you’re not compatible, you just don’t do it again. Anyone who feels the need to say it out loud is seriously messed up.”
I felt so relieved and happy to hear that.
We’ve been seeing each other for over two years now, so I’m glad to think he feels we’re compatible. I always enjoy myself and am in the mood when we’re together.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
A woman’s vagina can change shape in far more complex ways than you might imagine. You probably can’t really perceive how tight it actually is. I don’t have a vagina myself, so this is only based on what I’ve inferred from the women I’ve been intimate with.
A man’s erection quality can also vary, so I think it depends on the combination of the two. A woman’s tightness can change depending on how she’s feeling, and tension in other muscles can also make it harder for her to close up.
If the man’s erection isn’t quite firm and the woman’s muscles are tense, both partners may feel that things are looser than usual.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
So you want to squeeze more money out of guys through vaginal-pressure training—but does that actually increase your allowance? I think you’d be better off putting effort into other areas.
More importantly, your desire to bash older men comes through way too strongly—it’s more prominent than the actual question. If you’re trying to be stealthy, at least work it in a little more subtly. Though honestly, sharpening that kind of sense might help you make more money, lol.
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