Tips Sep 28, 2021 22:16

I made the mistake of telling him where I live, and now we often do things in my room. It’s the worst ( ´A` )

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He uses it like a love hotel, so my bed gets really dirty. He wipes his hands on the pillow, leaves stuff on the sheets, and the metal on the handcuffs has started coming off from the rubbing. Lotion is a given, too. Even putting towels down doesn’t help. He gets drenched in sweat, so of course the old-man smell lingers too. Even the mattress is stained now. Is it okay for me to ask him to buy me a new bed? To make matters worse, he’s my only papa (a male supporter). I’d appreciate some advice from other papa-katsu girls, especially those on a tight budget.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Since it saves money on hotel rooms, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to ask him to buy a bed. That said, you’ll be having sex there again anyway, so I feel like it would get dirty again pretty quickly.
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If he buys you a new bed, he may feel even more entitled to do whatever he wants, saying, “I bought it, after all.” And using lotion when you’re not even at a love hotel is just too much. If you’re okay with him continuing to come to your room, then I suppose you could let him buy it. Otherwise, try to buy a replacement yourself and come up with a reason why he can’t come to your room anymore—though I know that’s easier said than done. Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer too. > It’s okay for me to ask him to buy me a new bed, right? I think that’s totally fine. But do you really think a guy who’s stingy about hotel costs will buy you a bed? He might show up with a metal-frame bed... ><
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I’m Aya, a female member. Ugh, that’s the worst. Have him buy it for you.
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I’m Kazu, one of the male members. I think you should talk about something other than his old-man smell and get him to buy you a bed.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. You really took quite a risk. Even so, I like that you’re not being overly pessimistic about it. You seem pretty resilient. Why not go choose it together with that papa?
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. Haha! You’re quite something yourself, young lady! You need to look your men over carefully and teach them what needs teaching, too. Haha. Of course, you should ask him to replace the bed. And I think it’s perfectly reasonable to ask him to replace the dirty pillowcase as well. But it sounds like you only have one papa (a male supporter), so be tactful and careful not to get cut off… That said, if you really can’t put up with it, I think ending things is certainly an option.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. It’s perfectly fine to ask him to buy you a new bed. But if a meteor hits tomorrow, it’ll all be blown to bits. Do your best so you have no regrets! (I’m starting to think this answer works for everything.)
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