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Sep 27, 2021 07:52
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m also a Type B, and the women I see usually become open to an adult relationship (intimate) by the first or second date.
From the third date onward, they tend to say, “Only once we’ve really gotten close...” But they’re difficult to win over, so it’s safest to walk away.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I haven’t decided yet. It depends on my motivation. When I’m in the mood to persist, I do.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
You don’t have to rush—it's perfectly fine to wait for the woman to make the first move.
If she’s more of a B type than a C type, things will naturally progress to an adult relationship on the first or second date.
With a B type, I consider the number of dates before she gives the green light to be an indication of the pace of the adult relationship afterward. The longer it takes, the more typical of a B type she is. It’s a good fit for people who want to enjoy dating as well, rather than having an adult relationship every time they meet.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Yeah, I feel the same way as the person who asked the question. If you can’t tell at that point, our sensibilities just don’t match.
I know you can usually get a pretty good read on someone within a minute of meeting them. After that, it’s basically a different game.
When I see profiles saying things like, “I can decide after three or four meetings♡,” I can’t help thinking, “What are you, Zhuge Liang?” But the fact that all sorts of other games and one-upmanship are mixed in makes it a real pain, lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
I think most women can tell the moment they meet a man whether they could or couldn’t be intimate with him. So if a woman has chosen Type B, I think it’s generally reasonable to decide by the second date whether she’s open to an adult relationship (intimate) or whether you won’t see each other again.
That said, there are a very small number of women who have a hard time making up their minds. Sometimes I wonder whether men who choose Type B actually prefer women like that, but in those cases, I think three dates is a good guideline.
If it hasn’t progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) by the third date, there seems to be a high chance that things will remain dinner only (no intimacy) after that.
That’s why, when men accused me of running a “dating-type scam,” I used to tell them, “You can’t know whether it’s a scam unless you ask her out three times.” And I still believe that’s true.
> I’ve decided not to meet him even if he asks me out for a third date. Is that too soon?
It’s a little soon, so try seeing whether things can progress to an adult relationship (intimate) on the third date. Some women do say yes on the third date.
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Probably just once… There are also people who secretly identify as C, you know.
They seem to think it makes them more valuable…
If the first time doesn’t work out, I don’t think there’ll be a second chance.
I don’t think there’ll be a third or fourth time either.
Although this is probably just my own bias…