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Sep 26, 2021 15:38
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Do men who, from the very first meeting, use their tongues inside a woman’s vagina during oral sex or even lick her anus really not feel that it’s dirty or have any reservations? I can understand wanting to do that with a girlfriend or someone they love, but...
I’m uncomfortable being kissed after someone has licked my anus, so I’m always surprised when I come across men who do things like that.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I’m a man, but I’m really not comfortable with it.
There are a lot of bacteria in the anus.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Ahaha!
I love this question! It’s the best! Haha.
I think he’s taking her for granted because she’s a woman he likes. Since she likes you, give her a kiss.
Please!
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
This seems like something you’d only know by asking the person directly, but:
> Aren’t men who perform cunnilingus from the very first meeting—even putting their tongue inside the vagina or licking the anus—concerned about hygiene or hesitant at all?
I assume they do it because they aren’t bothered by it.
> I can understand wanting to do that with a girlfriend or a woman you really like, but…
I think she’s probably a woman he likes.
If he simply wanted sex and anyone would do, I feel like he’d go to a sex service establishment instead.
(Even then, since he’s paying, I imagine he’d still choose someone.)
> I also feel uncomfortable being kissed after he’s licked my anus.
I think that’s perfectly normal. You should be able to say so right then and there.
Since he considers it normal, telling him may help him realize that you’re uncomfortable with it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think they’re willing to do it because they don’t have any reservations about it. You and I would only consider it “if it’s with someone we like,” but for people like that, either they’re fine doing it even if they don’t like the person, or they can become fond enough of someone—even on the first meeting—to be comfortable with rimming. And of course, some people simply can’t do it, no matter how much they like someone.