This may have been asked before, but I have a question.
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For example, if a man really likes a woman after their first date, could he write a slightly negative review afterward to discourage other men from making offers, or to make the staff less likely to recommend her?
Complaints like saying her appearance, language, or attitude were not good—things that wouldn’t be conveyed directly to the woman, perhaps…
When I don’t receive many offers, I start wondering whether something like that might be happening…
At our first date, he told me things like, “You’re cuter than in your photos,” we went to a room, I received an allowance around the usual rate, and we exchanged contact information. That’s when I started to wonder about it a little…
I also have a completely unrelated question: For women members, what brands of lingerie do you choose on days when you have a date that includes going to a room? I usually play it safe and choose a clean-looking, lightly colored matching set from Wacoal or Triumph.
Is it better to wear something like a babydoll with matching underwear as well?
During the cold winter, I inevitably end up wearing Heattech or something else that isn’t exactly sexy.
Do male members pay attention to what you wear underneath, too?
Of course, I never wear anything old or worn out!
Cute patterned lingerie might be acceptable for students, but I’d love to hear from women members in their 30s or older.
I’m columnist Fuu.
There may be some feedback, but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. With 7,000 female members, the staff probably can’t share every little piece of feedback. Just make sure not to cancel at the last minute or show up late.
You should focus on doing what you can—for example, responding promptly to messages from the club, being polite with the club staff, and giving thoughtful feedback after an offer. That will help the club form a good impression of you.
As for underwear, everyone has different preferences, but for the first meeting, I’d recommend a matching set in a color that suits you. Baby dolls are a matter of personal taste, so it’s better to get a sense of his preferences first.
As for Heattech, since you’ll be taking a shower, you can simply take it off before he sees it. My monthly arrangement also wears it in winter.
For the first meeting, I’d prefer something simple: take a shower, put on your underwear, wrap yourself in a bath towel, and come to the bed.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
> There’s a woman I really liked after our first date. Is it possible for a man to give her a slightly negative rating afterward to discourage other men from making offers, or to keep the staff from recommending her too much?
It’s not impossible, but there’s little benefit for the man, and he could also lose the trust of the other members. Since male members can no longer use one another’s feedback as a reference when making new offers to women, I don’t think there’s any real need to do that.
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So, are you saying, “People tell me I’m this cute, yet I get so few offers—is someone trying to sabotage me?” You’re overthinking it.
As for lingerie, whether it’s Triumph or Wacoal, I think anything that makes it clear you made an effort and dressed appropriately for your age is fine. Something like a babydoll would probably get all bunchy under your clothes, wouldn’t it?
Even in winter, wearing Heattech or something similar is a bit much. It might be unavoidable in especially cold regions, but in Tokyo, you should be fine without it at least for a date. Please use common sense appropriate to colder climates if you live in one.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Regarding the survey, this is how the rating system works:
https://universe-club.jp/information/64462/
If someone submits feedback saying you were “below expectations,” your star rating will go down. However, giving that kind of feedback isn’t common, so I think it may also raise questions about the character of the man who submits it.
Also, staff recommendations aren’t based on just one or two pieces of feedback. They’re mainly made during interviews, when the staff member thinks, “〇〇 would probably make an offer to her.”
In other words, your star rating might drop if someone intentionally submits extremely negative feedback. But I think it’s safe to say that the impact isn’t significant enough to worry too much about.
I often make offers to women around their thirties, and I feel that most of them wear Salute or imported lingerie. Matching sets are a given—I’ve never seen anyone wearing mismatched pieces. The color is a matter of personal preference. Some women wear pale colors, while others choose black or red.
I don’t pay that much attention to what they wear underneath, but if a woman I was meeting for the first time took off Heattech, I’d probably think, “Seriously? Heattech?” As an aside, I’m not a fan of babydolls.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
As for the survey, if there aren’t many offers, then that may indeed be a factor.
I do get the impression that the star ratings change more easily than they used to, but I think a single date would only cause a major change for something clear-cut, like being late or canceling at the last minute.
I can’t say for sure without asking the staff, though…
That said, apparently the six-month review conducted when this new system was introduced concluded that the survey wasn’t subject to any deliberate bias.
So I don’t think there’s any need to worry too much.
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