While answering a question about men who ask to have unprotected sex, I became curious about something.
What percentage of men ask, “Let me do it without a condom,” when having an adult relationship (intimate) for the first time?
I can understand if you've become very close and you know he's only having unprotected sex with you, but I really don't think it's gentlemanly for someone you've only met once or twice to ask to have unprotected sex.
I don't want to get an infection myself, and I wouldn't be able to take responsibility if a child were conceived, so I believe wearing a condom is the bare minimum of good manners.
If nothing is said, I’d say about one in three will try their luck and hope to go without one. It tends to be more common among older men, who use “I can’t stay hard with it on” as an excuse.
Marika
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
First off, I’m not trying to brag or subtly flex here, so please forgive me♡
On the other hand, I’ve had a woman go bare with me while she was on top. It was probably around our fourth time meeting. It somehow felt like a service she was offering, so I went along with it, but it did make me wonder whether a lot of men ask for that kind of thing, which is why she took the initiative.
The only thing I like straight is beer, so I’ve never asked for it—but maybe some women like it too.
If a woman asks me, I’ll oblige. *smug face*
Sorry, I got carried away. *teehee*
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I’m Dai, a male member.
> Papuwa
That’s an incredibly high percentage—I was honestly surprised. I’d assumed you were making a fuss over just one or two people like that, so I take that back.
I think I’ll ask the women I’m seeing about it as a conversation topic.
Opening the passenger-side car door for a woman is an example of putting ladies first, so it does seem rather Western and probably not very common among Japanese men. If I saw something like that in a rural town, it would feel completely out of place.
> Osaka
I don’t see anything wrong with it if the woman is the one asking for it.
When you’re seeing someone for the first time, I feel it would be ungentlemanly for the man to initiate unprotected sex.
Personally, even if a woman asked me, I wouldn’t do it. And unless we were extremely close, I’d probably assume she does the same with other men and end things.
> Marika
So there really are about one in three.
Do some men have trouble getting hard without a condom…? Are there also men who can’t ejaculate?
A long time ago, I heard a sex worker who didn’t offer intercourse say that she would tell men who asked for it that they couldn’t ejaculate unless they put it inside. I wonder if it’s something similar to that…
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