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Sep 24, 2021 22:41
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I often feel that way about the men I date.
It seems like emotionally mature adults don’t exist.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Precisely because it’s an adult relationship (intimate), you may feel comfortable showing your childish side.
The fact that you don’t understand that makes me think you’re emotionally immature.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Adult relationships → completely
...isn’t that how it is?
Everyone has flaws.
I think being an adult means being able to accept them all.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I often feel that the women I date are emotionally younger than I expected.
Come to think of it, when I was in college, I realized that adults weren’t as mature as I had imagined. Looking back, I remember concluding that my own parents—my closest examples of adults—weren’t all that mature either.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m date◎yume, a male member.
The woman I was seeing was a real money-minded girl.
I thought she seemed immature because she didn’t appear to care about anything but money...
But then she contacted me saying:
“I may have been nothing but a money-minded girl all along.”
And lately I’ve been thinking, “You’re only realizing that now...?” (lol)
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
What is it about papas that makes you think they’re childish? Sometimes I feel that way when a papa keeps teasing the girl he likes—it’s kind of childish.
I just had dinner with that papa, and he has this cute, boyish side alongside the presence that comes with his age and having weathered the harsh waves of business. I was absentmindedly looking at his face, thinking, “I really like him… he’s so cool,” when he increased my allowance.