Tips Sep 24, 2021 21:40

If I told a man, “Please understand why I’m in an adult relationship with ○○, who’s three decades older than me and even older than my father,” would he understand that money is my main motivation?

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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. Are you trying to tell your papa (a male supporter) that money is your main goal? Why? What benefit would you get from telling him? If you’re saying it as a parting shot, don’t beat around the bush—just say, “The reason I was seeing you was for the money.” He’ll understand. What a sad take on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Money is important, but there are arrangements where you can genuinely respect and enjoy each other as people. Whether you can see it that way is ultimately up to you, though...
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あや
あや ?
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I’m Aya, a female member. After playing the role of a sweet, innocent, classy girlfriend and getting him completely hooked, I suddenly give him a cold look one day and say plainly, “Your only appeal is your money, right? That’s what I’ve thought from the very beginning, you know?” And there you have it: a highly masochistic papa, fully trained.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. Even then, I probably won’t get my point across.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. What I wrote in the question is just common sense, so there’s no point explaining anything to a total airhead who can’t understand it unless you spell it out.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Most men will understand what I mean, but the kind of man who needs to be told probably won’t.
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