Should I only include positive things in my profile?
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If it’s okay to include something negative, how far is too far?
Would something like this be okay?
“Back when I was registered before, I had a hard time meeting a good man, but I’ve rejoined because I’m determined to find the right one this time!”
I’m Dai, a male member.
I think it’s fine, but since it’s pretty generic and inoffensive, I don’t think it’s the kind of comment that would particularly lead to an offer.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I think it would be better to leave the previous profile alone and write a new one from scratch so there aren’t any complications.
Once people start wondering whether you’re trustworthy, the offers will stop coming.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
A comment that makes me want to reach out when someone re-registers is:
“I re-registered because things ended with the person I was seeing before.”
If her photos are cute and she’s my type, I might offer to meet her—or at least add her to my favorites without thinking twice.
I understand how these relationships work, and based on how long she was registered before signing up again, I get the impression that she’s capable of maintaining a relationship with a man—or has actually done so—which makes me view her a little more favorably.
“I couldn’t meet any good men” gives off a slightly high-maintenance, prideful impression. Personally, unless she were exactly my type, I probably wouldn’t make an offer.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
Mac, that one got me.
But if you put it that way, it might sound like only overweight guys would make offers（笑）
Maybe you should add, “Non-overweight guys are welcome to make offers too.”
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I’m Aya, a female member.
How about something that conveys a change in your feelings, such as:
“I used to have a hard time being myself, but I’ve decided to start fresh and give it another try.”
“I used to be too busy with work to spend much time connecting with my papa (a male supporter), but now I feel more at ease mentally and would like to enjoy relaxed dates again.”
Something along those lines might work.
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