I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Before you start, make sure you’ve taken thorough precautions to avoid getting caught.
Don’t let your relationship with your boyfriend become one where you casually show each other your phones. Come up with plausible reasons why you might be out or staying overnight on papa-katsu date days—reasons that wouldn’t seem strange to your boyfriend or family.
Be extremely careful, such as avoiding papa-katsu around where you live, near your workplace, or in areas where you know a lot of people.
It may also be a good idea to think in advance about what you’ll say if you are found out before getting started.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
The club also takes precautions to help keep things discreet, but nothing is ever guaranteed.
Of all the women I’ve met, there was one who told me she had been found out by her parents and was going to quit.
I gave the club some feedback—not in a negative way—and they told me she had also left the club for the same reason, so it was probably true.
She had grown up in a relatively wealthy family, but after her family’s business started struggling during COVID, she seems to have started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to cover at least her tuition herself.
I couldn’t ask how her parents found out, but things like that do happen.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Basically, only members can see your profile, so I don’t think you’ll be found out.
That said, nothing in life is ever 100% certain.
For example, if the president of the company you work for happens to be a Universe member, they could recognize you.
Even if someone sees your photo, though, you could simply say:
“I’m not registered. Is there someone who looks like me?”
There are always people who resemble each other, so unless you receive an offer and actually meet them, I don’t think you’re likely to be found out.
If you’re worried, I recommend registering with a blurred photo.
(Though you’ll probably receive fewer offers.)
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As long as you don’t leave your phone unattended while it’s unlocked, there’s no way the club would contact your family, so you won’t get found out.
If you are found out, it will probably be because of changes in your behavior, spending habits, or daily routine.
These days, if someone sees you on a date near your workplace, many people might assume, “Is that her papa?”
Marika
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