The previous question had an answer saying you should simply avoid men who ask to go bare, but that’s actually extremely difficult.

I’m Dai, a male member. I understand why you’re upset. But whether she yells at you on the spot or gives you a long, drawn-out lecture, if you’re uncomfortable, you’re uncomfortable. I think the only option is to say goodbye right then and there. (Be sure to leave feedback afterward.) When you say there should be an announcement upon registration and when making an offer, what exactly would that announcement say?

Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well. > If it’s during hours when I can reach the club, I can call and get their approval to end things on the spot, but I don’t know what to do outside those hours. If it’s outside those hours, I think it’s a good idea to make a recording. There’s nothing to be gained from recording during an adult relationship (intimate), so it’s different from secretly filming or eavesdropping. If you keep the recording as evidence, then even if the man contacts the club saying: “She just left on her own.” “How could she leave when the date wasn’t over?” you should be able to simply say: “He became angry, so I was scared and left.” If the club says, “He claims you suddenly left even though he hadn’t done anything,” just send them the recording. They’ll be able to determine who’s telling the truth. In the first place, if a man becomes angry, it’s only natural to feel scared and leave. In that situation, I think it’s best to preserve the evidence properly and leave quickly. If he starts lecturing you, interrupt him and ask: “I absolutely won’t do anything unless you use protection. What are you going to do?” As for the lecture itself, I think it’s best to ignore it. There’s no point listening. Usually, a lecture consists of nonsense like: “What value do you even have?” “Do you realize how hard it is to earn this money?” So I think it’s fine to cut him off, make him state his conclusion, and then say: “We couldn’t agree on the terms, so I’m going to leave now.”

I’m Fuu, a column writer. Some men want to have sex without protection—not all of them, but there are quite a few. You’ll encounter them not only among papas, but also boyfriends and friends with benefits. Don’t agree too easily. Even if he lashes out at you or lectures you endlessly, refuse and run away from the situation. If it’s a papa, don’t forget to give the club feedback. With your next papa, make sure to say, “Please use protection,” when discussing the terms before going to his room, and decide in advance that you’ll end things if he refuses. If you do decide to have sex without protection, think it through carefully and discuss the terms with him first, such as: - Agreeing to limit the number of sexual partners you and he each have - Taking the pill - Finding a clinic where you can get tested or treated for STIs right away Protect your own body.

I’m Aya, a female member. Since the club’s official position is that it isn’t an adult-entertainment business, I don’t think they can really offer guidance like, “What to do if you ever find yourself in danger at a hotel with a man.” Still, I feel like someone should teach women these things so no one gets hurt…

I’m Kazu, a male member. You’re an adult, so you should take care of yourself. If you want someone to look after you, either pay protection money to people in that line of work or get a job at an adult entertainment establishment.