My papa has a small appetite. He’s very conscious about his appearance, so that’s a plus, but he also seems to prefer girls who don’t eat much…

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He says things like, “It’s cute how you eat slowly.” I love eating (and I have a habit of bingeing and purging), and I can’t help wanting to eat a lot. I’m actually a fast eater with a huge appetite. It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) so I can afford to eat as much as I want. However, the amount we eat is obviously very different, so all I can do is hold back to avoid turning him off. I never feel full—in fact, I end up even hungrier, and my mind becomes filled with thoughts of food. Is there any way I can tell him that I want to be able to eat more? Most of my allowance goes toward food, so when we’re on a date, I want to eat as much as I like without worrying about the cost. Ugh, I’m hungry.

Answer 1

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. > Is there any way to tell him that I want to be able to eat a lot? I don’t think you should say that to your current papa. When you get an offer from a new papa in the future, you could say something like, “I tend to eat quite a lot—is that okay?” on your first date, and then go ahead and eat plenty. That way, he’ll understand that’s just how you are, and it should be perfectly fine to eat as much as you like after that.

Answer 2

I’m columnist Fuu. If you want to keep seeing that papa, how about eating a couple of convenience-store rice balls—or a cup of ramen—before the date?

Answer 3

I’m Dai, a male member. Some men don’t eat much themselves but enjoy watching someone else eat a lot with enthusiasm. Saying that it’s cute how slowly you eat may just be a compliment they offer for the sake of saying something nice. That said, I can understand feeling a little bad about eating a lot at an expensive, upscale restaurant. Why not suggest going somewhere with an all-you-can-eat buffet instead?

Answer 4

I’m in Seattle. I think you should go to the hospital. You can’t keep doing that forever. In the short term, wouldn’t water or soda work?

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