I wish people would tell me I’m cute. No one has ever said it to me—not even my parents.
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Sometimes, when meeting someone for the first time on a date, I’ve seen them make an expression that looked like disappointment.
It seems like people with higher self-esteem get told they’re cute more often. How can I develop self-esteem or learn to like myself?
I hate myself, and sometimes I feel like I might impulsively end my life.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
> How can I develop self-esteem and learn to like myself?
You might want to try reading *Eko Eko Azaraku*.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you’re getting offers through the club, you’re definitely attractive enough to do well out there—after all, half of the women registered with the club don’t receive any offers. So relax and have confidence.
As for why your papa looked disappointed, I imagine it was either:
- You misread his expression, or you simply perceived it differently.
- You came across as gloomy or lacking enthusiasm.
Do something fun and laugh. It’s okay if you have to fake a laugh at first. Smiling and laughing can gradually lift your mood. Meet your papa with a smile to start with.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I think people with high self-esteem are generally confident in themselves.
I feel that it comes from being able to work toward your goals and receiving praise from others for what you accomplish through those efforts.
That said, some people do have confidence without any real basis for it…
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
To “learn to love yourself,” you need to have confidence in yourself.
As Marika said, the fact that you were able to register with a dating club means that, objectively speaking, you’re reasonably attractive.
After that, stand in front of the mirror, open your eyes wide, smile, and say to yourself every day:
“I’m beautiful. I’m beautiful. I’m beautiful.”
Before long, you really will start to become more beautiful.
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People tell me I smile and laugh a lot.
If you keep smiling, things will start turning around somehow.
Most people don’t go through everyday life constantly thinking about whether they like themselves or not.
You were accepted by Universe and have already received offers, so you can’t possibly be that unattractive. Even a beautiful woman won’t look cute if she’s sulking.
Still, what a strange parent—not telling their own daughter she’s cute.
Marika
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