Do older men have stronger sex drives—or at least a stronger desire to do it? Putting aside whether they can get it up. Do you ever lose your sex drive? I’m a woman in my twenties, but I can’t keep up with their libido. How many hours do you spend at a hotel? For me, it can be as long as five hours (;_;)
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Five hours in a room is a bit long, so why not ask if you could make it a little shorter? You could say something like, “It hurts down there, so I can’t.” If he won’t listen, end things with him.
It’s not that all older men take that long—it’s just that this particular person has a strong sex drive. Not every papa (a male supporter) spends five hours in a room.
I have a fairly strong sex drive too and sometimes go for round two, but including the time spent eating, I keep it to within four or five hours.
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I’m Maezawa from “The President’s Office,” and I’ll answer this too.
> Don’t older men have stronger sex drives and a greater desire to do it?
It’s a little different.
There are plenty of men whose sex drives have already faded. They’re the kind of men who feel, “I’m done with women.”
With dating clubs, the men who register are still active—or rather, they’re men who want to meet women. So I think it just happens that some of them also have particularly strong sex drives.
> I can’t keep up with their sex drive.
I think it’s fine to tell them exactly that.
You shouldn’t force yourself.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s not so much that I have a high sex drive—I just really enjoy intimacy, so I often want to do it.
As for you, you’re still sexually inexperienced.
You’ll start finding it enjoyable and wanting more once you’ve gained more experience.
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This is Nana Ayase♡
You must be sexy, beautiful, and absolutely overflowing with pheromones.
If someone is being too persistent, why not say goodbye to them? I feel sorry for the men who are trying their best even though they just want to go home.
Why not wait for your next offer?
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Good question（笑）
I’d say I’m more of a grandpa than an older guy, but I do admit I have a pretty strong desire to “do it.”
Especially when I’m with a woman I’m seeing—the desire is at full blast!（笑）
If you’re asking whether I’m like that all the time, not at all（笑）
Five hours is seriously a long time… What are you doing for five hours?
Go home already…（笑）
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Who are you comparing yourself to?
To you, who’s only seeing him because you’re being paid and don’t really want to?
Of course men are going to have the stronger desire. If you don’t want to have sex, you shouldn’t.
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