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What’s the best way to express my gratitude when saying goodbye to a woman who I feel changed my life? She told me she’ll be getting married next year, so it’s increasingly likely that things will end by the end of this fiscal year. For three years, even though we only met a few times a month, I feel she fulfilled me both emotionally and physically. Thanks to her advice, my business has also started doing much better. I’m wondering whether it would be better to give her a fairly substantial sum of money or a gift. If I give her money, what amount would she likely accept without feeling uncomfortable? I’d appreciate advice from anyone with experience.

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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. > How much do you think they’d accept without refusing? Since getting married involves all kinds of expenses, I think they’d accept around two million yen. That said, in Japan there’s apparently a custom of refusing the first time as a matter of etiquette. So when I say they should refuse initially, I mean it purely as a courtesy. I also seem to recall that it’s best to accept it on the third occasion, so you may have to offer it up to three times. I think that’s a uniquely Japanese custom. > Is it better to give them a bundle of cash, or give them something instead? I’d say a bundle of cash.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. I don’t have any experience myself, but if I had to choose between gifts and cash, I’d choose cash. It sounds like you had a truly enviable relationship. Even if you didn’t give each other anything, it seems your mutual gratitude wouldn’t waver. Knowing that there are people who’ve had this kind of relationship—and experienced members to look up to—gives me hope as well. Much respect.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I don’t have any experience yet, but I think I’m fairly generous.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. I can give it to you in a bundle, or through a cash card in your name.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If it’s a choice between cash and a gift, I think cash is better since it doesn’t get in the way. As for how much to give, isn’t that up to how you feel?
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